【正文】 o, what can you do to manage conflict in your own relationships? First, try to understand the other person’s point of view 74 put yourself in his of her place. People who are 75 to what their partner thinks and feels 76 greater relationship satisfaction. For example, researchers found that among people in dating relationships 77 marriages, those who can adopt their partner’s perspective show more positive 78 .more relationshipenhancing attributes and more constructive responses 79 conflict.　　Second, because conflict and disagreements are an 80 part of close relationships. People need to be able to apologize to their partner for wrongdoing and 81 forgiveness from their parents for their own acts. Apologies minimize conflict, lead to forgiveness, and serve to restore relationship closeness. In line 82 this view, spouses who are more forgiving show higher mental 83 over time. Increasingly, apologizing can even have 84 health benefits. For example, when people reflect on hurtful 85 and grudges(怨恨)，they show negative physiological(生理的) effects, including 86 heart rate and blood pressure, pared to when they reflect on sympathetic perspectivetaking and forgiving.　　)resolve B)regret C)abandon D)avoid　　68. A)Besides　B)Therefore　C)Moreover　　D)However　　69. A)trying　　B)declining　　C)failing　　D)striving70. A)ages　　B)years　　C)stages　　D)intervals　　71. A)on　　B)by　　C)off　　D)away　　72. A)prescribes　　B)protests　　C)proves　　D)predicts　　73. A)round　　B)amid　　C)among　　D)through　　74. A)so　　B)while　　C)but　　D)and　　75. A)sensitive　　B)superior　　C)exclusive　　D)efficient　　76. A)expose　　B)experience　　C)explore　　D)exploit　　77. A)as long as　　B)as far as　　C)as well as　　D)as soon as　　78. A)minds　　B)emotions　　C)psychology　　D)affection　　79. A)to　　B)against　　C)at　　D)toward　　80. A)absolute　　B)inevitable　　C)essential　　D)obvious　　81. A)require　　B)inquire　　C)receive　　D)achieve　　82. A)over　　B)with　　C)up　　D)of　　83. A)quality　　B)identity　　C)charity　　D)capability　　84. A)creative　　B)positive　　C)objective　　D)petitive　　85. A)prospects　　B)concepts　　C)memories　　D)outlooks　　86. A)added　　B)toughened　　C)strengthened　　D)increased　　　　注意：此部分試題請在答題卡2上作答，只需寫出譯文部分?！　?flowers looked as if they_____________________(好長時間沒有澆水了).　　 bought a car last week. It is______________________(比我的車便宜一千英鎊).　　 TV program is quite boning We might______________(不妨聽聽音樂)　　 left his office in a hurry, with______________________(燈亮著，門開著)　　 famous novel is said to __________________________(已經(jīng)被譯成多種語言).　　注意：此部分試題請在答題卡2上作答。2011年12月英語四級考試真題Why Integrity MattersWhat is Integrity?　　The key to integrity is consistencynot only setting high personal standards for oneself (honesty, responsibility, respect for others, fairness) but also living up to those standards each day. One who has integrity is bound by and follows moral and ethical standards even when making life39。s hard choices, choices which may be clouded by stress, pressure to succeed, or temptation.　　What happens if we lie, cheat, steal, or violate other ethical standards? We feel disappointed in ourselves and ashamed. But a lapse of integrity also affects our relationships with others. Trust is essential in any important relationship, whether personal or professional. Who can trust someone who is dishonest or unfair? Thus, integrity must be one of our most important goals.Risky Business　　We are each responsible for our own decisions, even if the decisionmaking process has been undermined by stress or peer pressure. The real test of character is whether we can learn from our mistake, by understanding why we acted as we did, and then exploring ways to avoid similar problems in the future.　　Making ethical decisions is a critical part of avoiding future problems. We must learn to recognize risks, because if we can39。t see the risks we39。re taking, we can39。t make responsible choices. To identify risks, we need to know the rules and be aware of the facts. For example, one who doesn39。t know the rules about plagiarism may accidentally use words or ideas without giving proper credit, or one who fails to keep careful research notes may unintentionally fail to quote and cite sources as required. But the fact that such a violation is unintentional does not excuse the misconduct. Ignorance is not a defense.But Everybody Does It　　Most people who get in trouble do know the rules and facts, but manage to fool themselves about the risks they39。re taking by using excuses: Everyone else does it, I39。m not hurting anyone, or I really need this grade. Excuses can get very elaborate: I know I39。m looking at another39。s exam, even though I39。m supposed to keep my eyes on my own paper, but that39。s not cheating because I39。m just checking my answers, not copying. We must be honest about our actions, and avoid excuses. If we fool ourselves into believing we39。re not doing anything wrong, we can39。t see the real choice we39。re makingand that leads to bad decisions.　　To avoid fooling yourself, watch out for excuses and try this test: Ask how you would feel if your actions were public, and anyone could be watching over your shoulder. Would you feel proud or ashamed of your actions? If you39。d rather hide your actions, that39。s a good indication that you39。re taking a risk and rationalizing it to yourself.Evaluating Risks　　To decide whether a risk is worth taking, you must examine the consequences, in the future as well as right now, negative as well as positive, and to others as well as to yourself. Those who take risks they later regret usually focus on immediate benefits (what39。s in it for me), and simply haven39。t considered what might go wrong. The consequences of getting caught are serious, and may include a 0 on a test or assignment。 an F in the class。 suspension or dismissal from school。 transcript notation。 and a tarnished reputation. In fact, when you break a rule or law, you lose control over your life, and give others the power to impose punis