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【正文】 reaching out to your neighboramp。39。s boss is how you get that unposted job. Itamp。39。s not cheating. Itamp。39。s the science of how information spreads.
Last but not least, Emma believed that you canamp。39。t pick your family, but you can pick your friends. Now this was true for her growing up, but as a twentysomething, soon Emma would pick her family when she partnered with someone and created a family of her own. I told Emma the time to start picking your family is now. Now you may be thinking that 30 is actually a better time to settle down than 20, or even 25, and I agree with you. But grabbing whoever youamp。39。re living with or sleeping with when everyone on Facebook starts walking down the aisle is not progress. The best time to work on your marriage is before you have one, and that means being as intentional with love as you are with work. Picking your family is about consciously choosing who and what you want rather than just making it work or killing time with whoever happens to be choosing you.
So what happened to Emma? Well, we went through that address book, and she found an old roommateamp。39。s cousin who worked at an art museum in another state. That weak tie helped her get a job there. That job offer gave her the reason to leave that livein boyfriend. Now, five years later, sheamp。39。s a special events planner for museums. Sheamp。39。s married to a man she mindfully chose. She loves her new career, she loves her new family, and she sent me a card that said, amp。quot。Now the emergency contact blanks donamp。39。t seem big enough.amp。quot。
Now Emmaamp。39。s story made that sound easy, but thatamp。39。s what I love about working with twentysomethings. They are so easy to help. Twentysomethings are like airplanes just leaving LAX, bound for somewhere west. Right after takeoff, a slight change in course is the difference between landing in Alaska or Fiji. Likewise, at 21 or 25 or even 29, one good conversation, one good break, one good TED Talk, can have an enormous effect across years and even generations to e.
So hereamp。39。s an idea worth spreading to every twentysomething you know. Itamp。39。s as simple as what I learned to say to Alex. Itamp。39。s what I now have the privilege of saying to twentysomethings like Emma every single day: Thirty is not the new 20, so claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Donamp。39。t be defined by what you didnamp。39。t know or didnamp。39。t do. Youamp。39。re deciding your life right now. Thank you. (Applause)
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