【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 勞而獲、利用各種手段輕松賺取別人的財(cái)富作為榮耀之事，雖然我們也知道那些有時(shí)是可恥的，甚至與經(jīng)常倡導(dǎo)的仁義道德是背道而馳的，但只要獲得了利益，就沒有人去過多追究事件的過程了，所以，現(xiàn)在有些人的道德觀已經(jīng)變得傾斜了。作為一個(gè)涉世不深的孩子，我們是讓他在銅臭味很濃的社會中隨波逐流，還是用正確的人生觀、道德觀去引導(dǎo)他，逐步使他成為一個(gè)正直、善良、品質(zhì)優(yōu)秀的人呢？這是我們每個(gè)家長都應(yīng)該深思的問題。我的答案是肯定的，我寧愿讓孩子體會一下生活的艱辛，體會一下自食其力的快樂，也不愿讓他沾染惡習(xí)，把不勞而獲，不擇手段作為他人生奮斗的目標(biāo)。當(dāng)我們繼續(xù)讀下去的時(shí)候，兒子被這本書吸引住了，湯姆只是一個(gè)孩子，畢竟他的所想、所為都是符合孩子的想法的，他的調(diào)皮、他的善良、他的勇敢、他的矛盾、剔除了他狡詐的一面都是我兒子所向往的。我忽然覺得童年也許就是那么一段為所欲為的懵懂時(shí)光，孩子們有一切權(quán)利去肆意安排他們的生活，包括厭學(xué)，包括想去冒險(xiǎn)，所有的想法都是他們對現(xiàn)實(shí)生活不滿的無聲抵抗，都是只有在他們那樣的年齡段，他們那樣的思想成熟程度才可能想出或做出的事。孩子們真的太沒有自由了，我們總是用學(xué)習(xí)好壞的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)去衡量他們、去要求他們，從而為他們施加了太大的壓力。其實(shí)作為成年人，回頭看一看，在天真爛漫的童年，我們又有幾個(gè)人為學(xué)習(xí)著過迷呢？在讀完《湯姆索亞歷險(xiǎn)記》這本書后，我與孩子做了一次比較平和的交流，我說：“兒子，你來總結(jié)一下湯姆的性格特點(diǎn)吧，并且告訴媽媽，你要學(xué)習(xí)他什么，不學(xué)他的什么?！蔽覂鹤酉肓讼?，然后告訴我，他覺得湯姆很聰明，也很勇敢，還很有正義感，就是太調(diào)皮了，太讓家長操心了。他也希望像湯姆一樣去冒險(xiǎn)，但他不會不告訴家長就到處亂跑的，那樣會讓家人擔(dān)心的；同時(shí)他還告訴我，他會做個(gè)正直勇敢的人，盡量改掉膽小的毛?。辉趯W(xué)習(xí)方面，他說不是不愿意學(xué)，就是太愛玩了，總是玩不夠。我不失時(shí)機(jī)地告訴他，學(xué)習(xí)的過程就是掌握各種知識的過程，知識多了，一個(gè)人就變得博學(xué)多才了，那同樣是很快樂的事，玩和學(xué)都要適度，我沒有剝奪他童年快樂的權(quán)利，但他也沒有荒廢時(shí)光的權(quán)利。我們很快樂地?fù)肀г谝黄?，那時(shí)的心情是無比幸福的。但我知道，孩子畢竟是孩子，他的自制能力是有限的，在今后的成長過程中，他還會給我?guī)砗芏嗪芏嚯y以解決的問題，也不一定就能信守諾言，但我會用一個(gè)母親最真摯的愛心去引導(dǎo)他，去呵護(hù)他，去感動他，也要適度地用一些原則去約束他，陪伴他走好童年、少年乃至青年階段的每一段路。直到成人后當(dāng)他驀然回首時(shí)，覺得他走過的每一步都是充實(shí)的、快樂的，那也許就是我今生最大的欣慰與快樂了吧！第四篇：湯姆索亞歷險(xiǎn)記讀后感“Adventures of Tom Sawyer’’ is the American writer Mark Twain to the United States as , the main body of juvenile life was written story of the historical background, is the nineteenth century, the Mississippi River in in the United book describes the 19 century, the Mississippi River in a small town people’s lives, it can be said at the time the United States are a microcosm of social character Tom Sawyer and his junior parents and seriously childish words and deeds can give us deep hate priests pack of lies and do not like boring school of education and decently adults, and children a rival smart and lively, integrity and courage, especially in some major events happened when in a battle between justice and evil, in the moment of crisis es, they will not hesitates to e the hero story is a naive, lively and naughty typical American and Wild Child Shark, the stem is laugh a lot of wonderful to paint the wall like a fine, the trick has facilities, so that other children will not only willing to replace his work, but also automatically offer Xie Shack later and fled to a desert island, it is thought that they drowned, was held at the church for their funeral, and they are hiding in the church bell tower on the naughty moves, although we can not give amodel, but he to justice, took out a witness to e forward to save the innocent criminals in the naughty, and even cracked a shack murder bee the admiration of the little appears that Tom is also a place worthy of our a great president, in addition to height long high, a strong body, the person’s thinking is also view the world different, thoughtful, and is no longer being a good person is to must not like that in the very cruel and ruthless villain, he did a bad thing to do, hate in the end, he was evil, to be starved to death in a cave at the whole story is seeming a plication of what people did or wish they did during their book is a little difficult to read at , it takes me a little while to get used to the 19th century dialect in the than referring to person of African decent in derogatory terms, the book would be enjoyable read for people of all highly remend this book for anyone looking to feel young again, if just for a few hundred think Tom is a brave always gives his friends courage in danger and he tries his best to help other course, we know Tom is a very naughty boy, and his aunt Polly is often angry with i think he also a good always can has grown stronger , and people’s thoughts are view onthe world is different, sensible and no longer people are gettering better and do not like the adventures of the ruthless villains, and his quest do bad, people see people at last he still las toman, got a starved to death in the reading the ‘Adventure of Tom Sawyer’.I really envy Tom to have such an interesting seems this book with relish, and even sleepless my heart, i respect he is a hero and i think i should learn somet