【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 n the face of ad hominem might seem crazy, but it 。面對(duì)廣告時(shí)，側(cè)一下你的臉。它似乎很瘋狂，但很有用。 is an powerful solution for physical and social it39。s also a major cause of emotional 。不幸的是，它是情感困惑的主要原因。 you39。re an adult, religious people will leave you alone if you leave them ，大家將會(huì)孤立你，如果你孤立大家的話。 vary more widely than you yourself it39。s nobody39。s 。告訴自己，那不是他們的錯(cuò)誤。 is the key to social yourself with true friends who love you just as you you don39。t see any around, quest for 。選擇他們愛(ài)你你也愛(ài)他們的真正的朋友相處。如果你周圍還沒(méi)有這樣的人，去追尋。 your children with kindness and respect.“I39。m your parent, not you39。re friend” is a reason to treat your kids better than their peers do, not ?！蔽沂悄愕母改?，不是你的朋友“是一個(gè)比他們同齡人對(duì)待你的孩子的更好的原因，而不會(huì)更糟。 mind ages at a slower rate than you expect when you39。re young, your body at a faster 。你身體的年齡比你想象的要快。 There are a million books out there about how to “boost” your here are recent ones I39。ve read that bring a unique perspective to the goal is to treat your career as if you are a freelancer offering your ’s your job to make sure your services are in rarer and more valuable those services are, the better off you’ll be。有百萬(wàn)本圖書(shū)是關(guān)于如何“促進(jìn)”你的職業(yè)生涯的。但最近有幾本書(shū)，我讀過(guò)后對(duì)這一領(lǐng)域有了獨(dú)特的視角。它們的目的是把你的職業(yè)看成是一個(gè)提供服務(wù)的自由職業(yè)者。你的工作是確保服務(wù)被需要。你的服務(wù)越稀有越有價(jià)值，你賺的就會(huì)越多。 News Make the news a part of your ’s important that you stay “in the know” about what’s happening in the job market, what industries are getting coverage, and what’s “hot”(and more importantly...what39。s not)。讓看新聞成為你的日常生活的一部分。重要的是：你要始終知道就業(yè)市場(chǎng)上發(fā)生了什么，哪些行業(yè)被報(bào)導(dǎo)了，什么是“熱點(diǎn)”(更重要的是??哪些不熱門了)。 LinkedIn is a great way to keep in touch with people in your industry and keep track of what they’re doing and worrying someone you admire tweets about a problem, you have a cool opportunity to help them ’s also a great way to study up on a potential new boss/employer。一個(gè)很好的途徑是用LinkedIn和行業(yè)里的人保持聯(lián)系，并“追蹤”他們?cè)谧龅氖潞蛽?dān)心的事，如果你欣賞的人因?yàn)橛龅嚼щy發(fā)了微博，你就有一個(gè)很好的機(jī)會(huì)協(xié)助他們解決難題。這也是一個(gè)了解潛在老板/雇主的好方法。 Work The people you work with today are the people your next job will be calling for don39。t have to be a fake, just remember that the goal is to get things done and for the entire group to be a team can’t do it all by yourself — and you will have a heck of a time getting anything done if your colleagues don’t like your attitude。今天你共事的人是你下一份工作的引薦人。你不必弄虛作假，只要記得你的宗旨是把事情做好，整個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)是成功的就可以了。要友好些。成為團(tuán)隊(duì)的一員。你不能自己完成所有事——如果同事不喜歡你的態(tài)度，你就得花很多時(shí)間去做所有的事。 a Mentor Mentors are essential in developing your all think we can do it on our own, but that’s just youthful bravado someone you respect and trust that has experience and try to learn as much as you can from might be your boss or it might be a former boss...you never know。導(dǎo)師在你職業(yè)發(fā)展中必不可少。我們都認(rèn)為靠自己就能做好工作，但那只是年少輕狂的妄想。找那些你尊重信任、且經(jīng)驗(yàn)豐富的人，從他們身上盡可能多學(xué)一些。這些人可能是你的老板，也可能是前任老板....。你也猜不到是誰(shuí)。 a Coworker Keep an eye out for someone that has too much on their plate or is obviously try to help them on some of their a deadline back for them out to coffee to give them a let them know you’re there to your team today, and they will be there to help you down the line。找出那些有太多事要做或能明顯看出受挫的人。然后盡力幫助他們。承擔(dān)一些他們的工作。把最后期限延遲一些。帶他們出去喝咖啡休息。任何事都可以。只要讓他們知道你愿意伸出援助之手。今天幫助你的“人脈團(tuán)隊(duì)”，明天他們會(huì)竭盡所能幫助你。 a Salary Audit 7.“核實(shí)”下你的工資The goal is to figure out if you’re being paid salaryparison sites to get a range of where you should warned — you might find you’re paid fairly(and might be overpaid!)even if you feel you deserve more!你的目標(biāo)是弄清楚是否獲得了與付出對(duì)等的工資。瀏覽比較薪酬的網(wǎng)站獲得你的工資范圍。要注意，你可能發(fā)現(xiàn)已經(jīng)得到了對(duì)等的工資(也許還多拿了！)，你也許也會(huì)想要獲得更高的薪水。 Your Spending Making more is the best way to boost your finances, but you also have to control how much you isn’t as hard as you less than you make, and get rid of your debt as quickly as you possibly can。提高經(jīng)濟(jì)水平的最好方法是賺更多錢，但你也必須控制消費(fèi)。這并沒(méi)有你想得那么難?；ǖ缅X比掙得錢少些，并盡快擺脫債務(wù)。 Smarte