【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 have never said those words to before or at least haven’t shared those words with for a long time.”最近在我執(zhí)教的一個(gè)成人班級(jí)里，我干了一件“不可饒恕的”事情。我居然給班上的學(xué)生布置了一份家庭作業(yè)！任務(wù)是“下周之內(nèi)要走到你所愛(ài)的人面前，告訴他們你愛(ài)他。此人必須是一位此前你從未對(duì)之說(shuō)過(guò)此話(huà)的對(duì)象，或至少很久沒(méi)有與他們交流過(guò)這些愛(ài)意盎然的話(huà)語(yǔ)了。”Now that doesn’t sound like a very tough assignment, until you stop to realize that most of the men were over 35 and were raised in the generation of men that were taught that expressing emotions is not “macho.” Showing feelings or crying(heaven forbid!)was just not this was a very threatening assignment for ，直到你意識(shí)到這個(gè)班里多數(shù)男人已年逾35歲。何況在他們成長(zhǎng)的那個(gè)年代，他們受到的是這樣的灌輸：流露情感沒(méi)有“陽(yáng)剛之氣”。人們不會(huì)輕易流露情感和哭泣(老天也不允！)。因此對(duì)某些人來(lái)說(shuō)，這是一項(xiàng)令人生畏的任務(wù)。At the beginning of our next class, I asked if someone wanted to share what happened when they told someone they loved fully expected one of the women to volunteer6, as was usually the case, but on this evening one of the men raised his appeared quite moved and a bit ，我就問(wèn)：當(dāng)你告訴別人你愛(ài)他/她時(shí)，結(jié)果怎樣？有沒(méi)有人愿意講一講？我滿(mǎn)心指望像平常一樣，某位女士能自告奮勇，但是這天晚上，一位男士舉起了手。他看上去很受感動(dòng)的樣子，還有一點(diǎn)顫抖。As he unfolded out of his chair(all 6 2“ of him), he began by saying, “Dennis, I was quite angry with you last week when you gave us this didn’t feel that I had anyone to say those words to, and besides, who were you to tell me to do something that personal?當(dāng)他從座椅上直起身來(lái)時(shí)(他身高6英尺2英寸)，他這樣說(shuō)道：“丹尼斯，上周你給我們布置任務(wù)時(shí)，我很生你的氣。我認(rèn)為我沒(méi)有什么人需要我說(shuō)那些話(huà)，而且，你是誰(shuí)？憑什么讓我們?nèi)ジ蛇@種涉及隱私的事？””But as I began driving home my conscience started talking to was telling me that I knew exactly who I needed to say I love you to.“ “但我驅(qū)車(chē)回家時(shí)，我的良知開(kāi)始與我對(duì)話(huà)。它告訴我，我確實(shí)知道需要向誰(shuí)說(shuō)‘我愛(ài)你’這句話(huà)。”“You see, five years ago, my father and I had a vicious disagreement and really never resolved it since that avoided seeing each otherunless we absolutely had to at Christmas or other family even then, we hardly spoke to each other.”“你瞧，5年前，我與父親發(fā)生了激烈的爭(zhēng)執(zhí)，而且從此再也沒(méi)有消除隔閡。我們互相回避，除非絕對(duì)必須出席圣誕節(jié)聚會(huì)或其他的家庭聚會(huì)。但甚至在那些場(chǎng)合，我們彼此幾乎也不說(shuō)一句話(huà)。”“So last Tuesday by the time I got home I had convinced myself I was going to tell my father I loved him.”“因此，上周二到家時(shí)，我確信自己做得不對(duì)，打算告訴父親我愛(ài)他。雙語(yǔ)達(dá)人:一些喜聞樂(lè)見(jiàn)的諺語(yǔ)翻譯A proverb is a short, well known saying that expresses a mon truth or proverbs give advice about the best way to ，眾所周知，表達(dá)一個(gè)共同的真理或信仰。許多諺語(yǔ)生活的最佳方式的意見(jiàn)。Recently, we presented a program about asked our listeners to send us their favorite short time later, we received suggestions from around the heard from listeners in Africa, Asia, Europe and South ，我們提出有關(guān)諺語(yǔ)方案。我們要求我們的聽(tīng)眾發(fā)來(lái)自己喜歡的諺語(yǔ)。很快，我們收到了來(lái)自世界各地的建議。我們聽(tīng)到的是來(lái)自非洲，亞洲，歐洲和南美洲的聽(tīng)眾。The top proverb among these listeners is this one: “Where there is a will, there is a way.” This means that you can rise above your problems if you have a goal and work very ：“哪里有意愿，就有一種方法?！保ㄓ兄菊?，事竟成。），這意味著，你可以超越你的問(wèn)題，如果你有一個(gè)目標(biāo)，工作很辛苦。Some listeners liked another proverb: “Strike while the iron is hot.” This means it is best to take action quickly and at the right favorite proverb was, “God helps those who help themselves.”一些聽(tīng)眾喜歡另一句諺語(yǔ)：“趁熱打鐵?！保ǔ脽岽蜩F），這意味著它是最好迅速采取行動(dòng)，并在合適的時(shí)間。另一個(gè)最喜歡的格言是“上帝幫助那些能自己幫助自己的?！保ㄗ灾咛熘＃u Daju from China wrote that his country has thousands of of them are also used in the United example is “Birds of a feather flock together.” This means that people who are alike often bee friends or spend time ，他的國(guó)家有成千上萬(wàn)諺語(yǔ)。其中有幾個(gè)是在美國(guó)使用。一個(gè)例子是“物以類(lèi)聚，人以群分?！保ㄎ镆灶?lèi)聚，人以群分。）這意味著，人們都經(jīng)常成為朋友一起消磨時(shí)光。Another proverb is “Blood is thicker than water.” This means family ties are stronger than other similar proverb states “Charity begins at home.” A person should help his family or close friends before helping ：“血是血濃于水?！保ㄑ獫庥谒@意味著家庭關(guān)系是強(qiáng)于其他關(guān)系。類(lèi)似的諺語(yǔ)狀態(tài)“仁愛(ài)從家里開(kāi)始?！保ㄈ蕫?ài)始于家）。在幫助別人之前，一個(gè)人應(yīng)該幫助他的家人或親密的朋友。Alina from China sent us this proverb: “He who would climb a ladder must begin at the bottom.” That is good advice when working around your home or looking for a ：“他會(huì)爬上梯子，必須從底層開(kāi)始?！保ㄇЮ镏校加谧阆?。）這是個(gè)好建議，工作時(shí)在你的家里或找工作。Antonio Jose from Brazil says his favorite proverb is “Tell me who walks with you, and I39。ll tell you who you are.” Didier Vermeulen of France sent us this one: “It does not matter the speed you most important thing is to never stop.”來(lái)自巴西的何塞安東尼奧說(shuō)，他最喜歡的格言是：“告訴我，你與誰(shuí)走，我會(huì)告訴你，你是誰(shuí)?！保ㄓ^其友知其人。）迪迪埃韋爾默朗從法國(guó)給我們送來(lái)了一句：“它不會(huì)管你走的速度，最重要的事情是永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)停止?！埃ㄖ匾牟皇撬俣龋怯啦环艞?。）Wafaa from Egypt says his favorite proverb is, “Think twice, act wise.” He also says he is making an effort to use t