【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 our puter and then going back to bingewatching your favorite do it all the me, it’s Game of some on something outside a slice of your energies towards making the world suck less every people suggest doing this will increase your sense of say it’s good say that it will allow you to remember that, whether you are a legacy or the first in your family to go to college, the air you are breathing right now is rare ’t be an number you’re out there, and you’re giving back and you’re doing, and it’s life is are making ’re a it’s exciting and it’s least it is for love my have three TV shows at work and I have three daughters at it’s all amazing, and I am truly people are constantly asking me, how do you do it?And usually, they have this sort of admiring and amazed , how do you do it all?Like I’m full of magical magic and special wisdomness or do you do it all?And I usually just smile and say like, “I’m really organized.” Or if I’m feeling slightly kindly, I say, “I have a lot of help.”And those things are they also are not this is the thing that I really want to all of just to the women out this will matter to you women a great deal as you enter the work force and try to figure out how to juggle work and it will also matter to the men, who I think increasingly are also trying to figure out how to juggle work and frankly, if you aren’t trying to figure it out, men of Dartmouth, you should is being redefined at a lightningfast do not want to be a women and men of Dartmouth: As you try to figure out the impossible task of juggling work and family and you hear over and over and over again that you just need a lot of help or you just need to be organized or you just need to try just a little bit harder...as a very successful woman, a single mother of three, who constantly gets asked the question “How do you do it all?” For once I am going to answer that question with 100 percent honesty here for you it’s just it’s our fireside somebody has to tell you the , how do you do it all?The answer is this: I don’ you see me somewhere succeeding in one area of my life, that almost certainly means I am failing in another area of my I am killing it on a Scandal script for work, I am probably missing bath and story time at I am at home sewing my kids’ Halloween costumes, I’m probably blowing off a rewrite I was supposed to turn I am accepting a prestigious award, I am missing my baby’s first swim I am at my daughter’s debut in her school musical, I am missing Sandra Oh’s last scene ever being filmed at Grey’s I am succeeding at one, I am inevitably failing at the is the is the Faustian bargain one makes with the devil that es with being a powerful working woman who is also a powerful never feel a hundred percent OK。you never get your sea legs。you are always a little is always is always want my daughters to see me and know me as a woman who want that example set for like how proud they are when they e to my offices and know that they e to is a land and it is named after their their world, mothers run their world, mothers own Thursday their world, mothers I am a better mother for woman I am because I get to run Shondaland, because I get write all day, because I get to spend my days making things up, that woman is a better person—and a better that woman is woman is woman is wouldn’t want them to know the me who didn’t get to do this all day wouldn’t want them to know the me who wasn’t Number Three is that anyone who tells you they are doing it all perfectly is a fear I’ve scared you or been a little bit bleak, and that was not my is my hope that you run out of here, excited, leaning forward, into the wind, ready to take the world by would be so very you to do what everyone expects of you to just go be exactly the picture of hardcore Dartmouth point, I think, is that it is OK if you don’ point is that it can be scary to you can lie on the hardwood floor of your dorm room and cry while your mom packs up your you can have an impossible dream to be Toni Morrison that you have to let go every day you can feel like you might be failing at work or at your home the real world is yet, you can still wake up every single morning and go, “I have three amazing kids and I have created work I am proud of, and I absolutely love my life and I would not trade it for anyone else’s life ever.”You can still wake up one day and find yourself living a life you never even imagined dreaming dreams did not e I worked really I ended up building an empire out of my my dreams? Can suck can wake up one day and find that you are interesting and powerful and can wake up one day and find that you are a can be sitting right where you are up at —hopefully, I pray for you—hung then 20 years from now, you can wake up and find yourself in the Hanover Inn full of fear and terror because you are going to give the Commencement beats so, so in slow out, die, one of you will it be? Which member of the 2014 class is going to find themselves standing up here? Because I checked and it is pretty rare for an alum to speak ’s pretty much just me and Robert Frost and , which is crazy one of you is going to make it up here? I really hope that it’s one of it happens, you’ll know what this feels beats so, so moves in slow , every single one of you, be proud of your good on your are no longer are no longer works in are now citizens of the real have a responsibility to bee a person worthy of joining and contributing to who you are today...that’s who you be every single time you get a chance?Stand up in front of them see ahead and have the dry your heart beat so, so everything move in slow what?You what?You pass out, you die, you poop? this is really the only lesson you’ll ever need to know...You take it breathe this rare feel be truly finally always be luck.第二篇：美國(guó)著名脫口秀主持人柯南在達(dá)特茅斯演講美國(guó)著名脫口秀主持人柯南?奧布萊恩為2011年達(dá)特茅斯學(xué)院做了畢業(yè)致辭。前半部分有很多搞笑串場(chǎng)，后半部分柯南跟大家分享了自己的經(jīng)歷和人生經(jīng)驗(yàn)：正是那些