【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 a man’s training begins, it is probably the last lesson that he learns teaching is 1/4 preparation and 3/4 father is better than 100 is what survives when what has been learned has been can bear your own faults, and why not a fault in your wife? a general thing, people marry most happily with their own trouble lies in the fact that people usually marry at an age when they do not really know what their own kind isn’t a wife in the world who has not taken the exact measure of her husband, weighed him and settled him in her own mind, and knows him as well as if she had ordered him after designs and specifications（規(guī)格）of her story has three sides to ityours, mine and the have never in my life learned anything from any man who agreed with test of a man or woman’s breeding is how they behave in a justice is blind to color, until education is unaware of race, until opportunity is unconcerned with the color of men’s skins, emancipation（解放）will be a proclamation（宣布）, but not a hope that people will finally e to realize that there is only one ‘race’the human race, and that we are all members of one door of happiness closes, another opens。but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been persons have a wrong idea about what constitutes true is not attained through selfgratification, but through fidelity（忠誠）to a worthy a man hasn’t discovered something he will die for, he isn’t fit to hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is brave five minutes of the forms of psychological heroism is the willingness to tolerate anxiety and uncertainty in the pursuit of our valueswhether these values be work goals, the love of another human being, the raising of a family or personal murder makes a villain（罪犯）, millions a is thus with most of us。we are what other people say we know ourselves chiefly by are best nurtured in solitude。character is best formed in the stormy billows of the ’d rather be strong wrong than weakly man has three charactersthat which he exhibits, that which he has, and that which he thinks he is like a tree, reputation like its shadow is what we think of it。the tree is the real man in the world is better than someone not as good as someone best fertilizer is the gardener’s can bury a lot of troubles digging in the cultivate my garden and my garden cultivates give us oxygen for the lungs and for the is cheaper than therapy and you get greatest gift of the garden is the restoration of the five of the most delightful things about a garden is the anticipation it is here so kind, that just tickle her with a hoe and she laughs with a can plain because rose bushes have thorns and rejoice because thorn bushes have is utterly forbidden to be halfhearted about have got to love your garden whether you like it or is a journey, not a doing is often more important than the is a panion that goes with us on a reminds us to cherish each moment because it will never e we leave behind is not as important as how we have get through the hardest journey we need take only one step at a time, but we must keep on to me is a journeyyou never know what may be your next world is a book, and those who do not travel read only a get away from one’s working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one’s self。and this is often the chief advantage of travel and travelling bees dull in exact proportion to its all great travelers, I have seen more than I remember, and remember more than I have routines of tourism are even more monotonous than those of daily travel not to go anywhere, but to