【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 iving. The condition is, you need to get there within two hours. If you did, I will give you the suitcase with a million US dollar. Or if you late for only one minute, nothing will you get. When would you get about?Many would say: “Now.” will you?Now you set out. You hurry into your car, start it, drive for the building. You are so excited and wonder what to do about the one million US dollars. All of a sudden, you are stopped by the traffic jam. You turn on the radio and find there is no any way to get there because of the accident on your way. What will you do nest step? Go back? Or step out your car, go to the building on foot (running or employ a helicopter or other ways)?If, you are on the way to the dentist’s office and there is a traffic jam, surely you would turn back and appoit for another time.Why is there difference between these two thins? Because of the destination. If it is quite important for you, you will conquer it, regardless any hardship。 or if yit is not so serious, you may call it a day.Therefore, the best way to face the difficulty is to make the thing a business.一位父親問他正讀小學三年級的兒子：“陰天的夜晚，天空中看不到星星，是星星不存在嗎？”兒子很干脆的回答：“不是?！备赣H又問：“那位什么我們一顆星星也看不見呢？”兒子答：“是云把星星都遮住了?！备赣H接著又問兒子：“晴空萬里的白晝，天空中也看不見星星，是星星不存在嗎？”兒子有些猶豫，顯然不知道該如何回答父親這個問題。父親見兒子答不出，稍停了一下，說：“其實白天星星也存在，它們大都是恒星，永遠存在于太空中，只是我們?nèi)庋劭床坏搅T了。”兒子好奇地問：“這又是為什么呢？”父親想了一下。告訴兒子說：“是太陽的光太強了，它把所有星星的光都蓋住了?！痹谏钪?，很多人，很多事，也是如此。因為一個人或一件事所擁有的光環(huán)太強，不僅會把這個人或這件事本身的缺點遮住，而且還會把周圍其他人或其他事的優(yōu)點也都遮住，讓大家無法看到他周圍人的真實面目或其他事的真相。這不是按個人的眼睛出了問題，而是因為對方的光太強了。很多時候，強光也是一堵墻，是一堵肉眼看不見的墻，又是一堵肉眼無法看過去的墻，他可以迷惑我們正常的眼睛，也可以擋住我們正常的目光。Intense Light, a Wall as WellA father is asking his son in grade three: “We cannot find the star in the shady night. Is it not there?”His son answered it with clear –cut accent: “No.”The father asked again: “Then why we cannot see any star?”His son replied: “The cloud hide them.”Again the father asked: “There is no star in the sunny daytime. Where are they?”Hesitated, his son seemed have no idea to respond.For a moment, the father said: “Actually there is yet stars but most of them are恒星,and stay in the universe. It is just we cannot see them with our eyes. ”His son asked curiously: “Why?”Thinking for a while, the father answered: “Because the sunlight is too intense, and it shade the stars’ light.”The same goes to many things in our lives. The intense light of one person or one thing, may not only shade its own defects, but also the merits of the person or thing around it and makes it difficult for others to identify the facts besides him. This is not the problem of one’s eye, but the intense light.Most cases, the intense light is a wall, a wall that cannot see and stride with our eyes. Not only can it confuse our normal eyes, but also hinder our normal sight.25 看著前方一個朋友對我說:“當你憂傷時，請看著前方?！闭f來也怪，每當自己憂傷時，我很少看著前方，不是低低垂首，就是閉目不瞻，即便抬頭仰望星空，也是越看越茫然。憂傷時，自己的視野真的窄了。 這個朋友有一個冰雪聰明的女兒，美麗得像朵舞蹈著的花，但她完全看不到外邊的世界。朋友曾經(jīng)傷心欲絕，但沒有人能夠幫助到他療傷，是殘酷的生活教會他看著前方，發(fā)現(xiàn)和擁有那些前行一段路程才能得到的喜悅?？粗胺剑吹揭呀?jīng)長大的女兒——她更加漂亮乖巧，學會了自己照顧自己；她穿上了黑色的練功服、白色的舞蹈鞋，黑黑的頭發(fā)盤得高高的，用發(fā)光的發(fā)帶豎了起來；她時刻微笑著，那是匯集在她嘴角的點點明媚的春光；她變得堅強睿智，能夠自食其力，如她所愿，果真成了一名受人歡迎的舞蹈老師、、我們敲門時，上帝總是不在家。詩人朗費羅為此感慨不已：“你的命運一如他人，每個生命都會下雨。”下雨時，憂傷時，最值得做的事情就像這位朋友所說的:看著前方！一分鐘不行，再看一分鐘，久久地看，一次又一次地看，用一生的經(jīng)歷來看，用最真的愛滿懷著希望來看?？纯词遣皇恰八械挠甓紩！?，看看雨后的天空是不是更潔凈、更遼遠、更美麗，是不是還會奇跡般地出現(xiàn)彩虹。上帝總有回家的時候，雨水總會停下，前方總有希望和喜悅。Look AheadOnce a friend suggested me: “Look ahead when you are sad. ”It is this weird that ever when I am in sad, I am always bow my head or shut my eyes regardless his suggestion. Even when I catch a glimpse of the sky with stars, but again at sea. When I am depressed, my vision narrowed.This friend has a lovely and smart daughter and so charming like a flower in dancing. But, she is unable to see the outside world clearly. My friend ever so grieve that he was so pessimistic. No other aids seem to help him, but he gained the delight after a journey of hardship with looking ahead that the crucial life taught him.Look ahead, he has witnessed his daughter’s experience journeyshe is more beautiful and tamer and can take care of herself. She dresses her black excise cloth, with white dancing shoes, black and hightwist hair style with lighting belt。 she is always smile, indicating her charming youth in her mouth。 she bees strong in mind and smart, live on herself. As preferred, she bees a warmly received dancing teacher…The God is always absent when we knock His door. The great poet 朗費羅 could not help mending, “Your你的命運一如他人，每個生命都會下雨.” When it rains and we feel sad, it is worth looking ahead. If one minute is not enough, then take one more. Looking again and again with a long time, or even your whole life and your love and hope. See whether所有的雨都會停。 see the sky after rain if it is cleaner, vaster, more fantastic and see whether there is rainbow in magic.There is always the time the God go home。 the stop for rain and the hope and joyous ahead.28老故事咂出新滋味鐵杵磨成針的故事告訴我們：白費力氣的事盡管感人但卻是可笑的。明明買根針就能做活，非要用根大鐵棒磨它個三年兩載。方向和方法錯了，功夫下的再深也不行。三顧茅廬的故事告訴我們：機遇是等來的。如果孔明先生主動上門求職，就不見得有這樣的效果。不過，這話只適合古代，現(xiàn)代人即使比孔明的本事大十倍，坐在家里干等也不見得有機遇出現(xiàn)。天知道重視人才的觀念是進步了還是退步了。龜兔賽跑的故事告訴我們：永遠不要以己之短比別人之長，更不要因一時的僥幸成功把短當成長。如果是烏龜，可以跟兔子比潛水，也可以跟兔子比長壽，這才是烏龜?shù)膹婍?。井底的之蛙故事告訴我們：什么樣的環(huán)境早就什么樣的人生，反過來也同樣，什么樣的人生適合什么樣的環(huán)境。別指責青蛙的短淺愚昧，因為蛙絕不可能從井底遷到東海生存。如果蛙受了教育啟發(fā)，從此志在東海，那只有徒增煩惱了。武松打虎的故事告訴我們：英雄有時是被逼出來的。武松膽兒再大也是正常人，沒有人不拍老虎的道理。要不是犟脾氣加上十五碗小酒，決不回去做打虎的壯舉。其實他也沒想到會遇上老虎，真的遇上反而酒都被嚇醒了，說明他并不是真的想當英雄。不是他死就是虎亡，他把自己逼成了英雄?，F(xiàn)實的很多典型與此很類似，每一個英雄的出現(xiàn)都是有前提的。螳臂當車的故事告訴我們：即便粉身碎骨，也要為改變現(xiàn)狀做一些看似無效的努力。也許，當輪前的螳臂多了，車會慢下來或者停下來。New understanding to classic stories鐵杵磨成針tells us：Moving as the strenuous deeds, it is actually ridicules. Instead of buying a needle, he insisted to rub an iron stick exhausted for years. It is useless to work hard once the direction and method was wrong.三顧茅廬tells us：The opportunity is get by waiting. If Mr. Kong applied his position spontaneously, the result might be the other one. After all, it practices only in the old age. Though ten times the