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l this ethic of excellence in our children. its up to us to say to our daughters, dont ever let images on tv tell you what you are worth, because i expect you to dream without limit and reach for those goals. its up to us to tell our sons, those songs on the radio may glorify violence, but in my house we live glory to achievement, self respect, and hard work. its up to us to set these high expectations. and that means meeting those expectations ourselves. that means setting examples of excellence in our own ――我們應(yīng)該灌輸孩子們這種優(yōu)秀的品行。我們應(yīng)該 去告訴孩子他的價(jià)值,而是由電視上的圖片來(lái)完成,因?yàn)槲蚁M銈冇袩o(wú)限的夢(mèng)想,然后實(shí)現(xiàn)那些目標(biāo)。我們應(yīng)該告訴孩子們那些電臺(tái)上的歌是美化了暴力,但在家里,我們生活在成就的榮譽(yù)、自尊和奮斗中。我刻錄該寄予孩子一些高的期望。同時(shí)我們也被寄予期望,也等于在我們自己的生活中樹(shù)立目標(biāo)。 the second thing we need to do as fathers is paalong the value of empathy to our children. not sympathy, but empathy the ability to stand in somebody elses shoes。 to look at the world through their eyes. sometimes its so easy to get caught up in us, that we forget about our obligations to one another. theres a culture in our society that says remembering these obligations is somehow soft that we cant show weakness, and so therefore we cant show ,我們需要像父親一樣地關(guān)心孩子。不是同情,而是關(guān)心――學(xué)會(huì)換位思考。通過(guò)他們的眼睛觀察這個(gè)世界的能力。有時(shí),做”。我們自己”。是很容易的,因?yàn)槲覀兒鲆暳宋覀儗?duì)他人的義務(wù)。在我們的社會(huì)中,有一種觀點(diǎn)說(shuō):牢記這些義務(wù)是不怎么容易的,我們不能表現(xiàn)出軟弱,因此,我們也不能表現(xiàn)出仁慈。 but our young boys and girls see that. they see when you are ignoring or mistreating your wife. they see when you are inconsiderate at home。 or when you are distant。 or when you are thinking only of yourself. and so its no surprise when we see that behavior in our schools or on our streets. thats why we paon the values of empathy and kindneto our children by living them. we need to show our kids that youre not strong by putting other people down youre strong by lifting them up. thats our responsibility as fathers. and by the way its a responsibility that also extends to washington. because if fathers are doing their part。 if theyre taking our responsibilities seriously to be there for their children, and set high expectations for them, and instill in them a sense of excellence and empathy, then our government should meet them ,到華盛頓去也是一種責(zé)任,因?yàn)?,如果父親們對(duì)孩子們履行著他們的責(zé)任,對(duì)孩子們給予期望,灌輸孩子們優(yōu)秀的品行、關(guān)心,我們的政府就應(yīng)該在其中幫助他們。 父親節(jié)英文演講稿篇三 hi, everybody. this fatheramp。rsquo。s day weekend, iamp。rsquo。d like to spend a couple minutes talking about whatamp。rsquo。s sometimes my hardest, but always my most rewarding job ?C being a dad. 大家好!這個(gè)周末是父親節(jié),我想花點(diǎn)時(shí)間與大家交流下做父親的感想。我覺(jué)得做好一個(gè)父親的角色有時(shí)候最困難,但也最有意義。 i grew up without my father around. he left when i was two years old, and even though my sister and i were lucky enough to have a wonderful mom and caring grandparents to raise us, i felt his absence. and i wonder what my life would have been like had he been a greater 。兩歲時(shí)父親離開(kāi)了我們。但是我和妹妹很幸運(yùn),母親和祖父母對(duì)我們關(guān)懷備至,將我們撫養(yǎng)成人。盡管如此,我仍然覺(jué)得父愛(ài)缺失。我時(shí)常想,如果父親一直在我們的身邊,我的人生可能就會(huì)不一樣了。 thatamp。rsquo。s why iamp。rsquo。ve tried pretty hard to be a good dad for my own kids. i havenamp。rsquo。t always succeeded, of course ?C in the past, my job has kept me away from home more than often i would like to, and the burden of raising two young girls sometimes would fall too heavily on michelle. 因此,當(dāng)有了自己的孩子后,我便加倍努力,讓自己成為一個(gè)好爸爸。當(dāng)然,并非事事順利。過(guò)去,因?yàn)楣ぷ鞯年P(guān)系,我不得不經(jīng)常出差,這實(shí)在是情非得已。所以,撫育兩個(gè)女兒的重?fù)?dān)有時(shí)就落到了米歇爾的肩上。 but between my own experiences growing up, and my ongoing efforts to be the best father i can be, iamp。rsquo。ve learned a couple of things about what our children need most from their parents. 自身成長(zhǎng)的經(jīng)歷以及身為人父的經(jīng)歷,讓我懂得了很多東西。我一直竭盡全力做到最好,我也懂得孩子們最想從父母那里得到什么。 first and foremost, they need our time. and more important than the quantity of hours we spend with them is the quality of those hours. maybe itamp。rsquo。s just asking about their day, or taking a walk together, but the smallest moments can have the biggest impact. 首先,孩子們需要我們花時(shí)間陪伴。但陪伴他們的時(shí)間質(zhì)量比時(shí)間數(shù)量更重要。也許只是日常生活中的簡(jiǎn)短問(wèn)候,或是一起散步聊天,但這些最短暫的時(shí)光卻可以對(duì)他們產(chǎn)生最大的影響。 they also need structure, including learning the values of selfdiscipline and responsibility. malia and sasha may live in the white house these days, but michelle and i still make sure they finish their schoolwork, do their chores, and walk the dog.