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你們之間發(fā)展出長久的友誼和有價值的合作關(guān)系。 A bad ice breaker, however, can be a recipe for disaster. It can spiral out of control pretty quickly and at best be a terrible waste of time or worse an embarrassment for everyone involved. So, how do you start a meaningful conversation with someone new and avoid embarrassments or awkward moments of silence? Where do you begin? 然而一句糟糕的開場白則可能引發(fā)災(zāi)難。它會讓場面很快失控,至少也浪費了時間,搞不好還會讓每個人都尷尬。那么你該如何和初次見面的人開始一場有意義的交談,而且避免尷尬和冷場呢?你該怎么進(jìn)行開場? Understand that it is normal to feel a bit nervous when approaching someone new. Everyone gets a little shy at first。 after all, you don’t know what this other person is like. The person could be a grumpy, mean guy, but the only way to know for sure what the person is like is to get over being shy and approach them. That person might turn out to be the nicest, kindest person you ever meet. 你要明白,和一個陌生人接近時感到有點緊張是很正常的。最開始每個人都會有些害羞,畢竟你不清楚對方是怎樣的人。那個人也許是個壞脾氣的討厭鬼,但唯一確定這個人個性的辦法就是克服害羞,去接近他。也許這個人會成為你所遇到的最親切最善良的人。 Start by filling your idea vault with possible ice breakers to start a conversation and followup questions to sustain the conversation. Listen attentively to the other person’s responses because this can make or break your followup questions. To help you out with ideas for starting a conversation, here are ten of the most effective ice breakers you can use in different scenarios to get a conversation off and running. 一開始你應(yīng)該想好各種可能的開場白以便開始這場對話,并且準(zhǔn)備后續(xù)的問題讓對話持續(xù)下去。仔細(xì)傾聽對方的回應(yīng),因為這會影響到你后續(xù)問題的成敗。為了幫助你開始一場對話, 下面是10句最有用的開場白,你可以用于不同場合,讓對話開始并進(jìn)行下去。 hello 1. “How are you doing today, miss?” “小姐,今天過得怎么樣?” A genuine hello acpanied by a heartwarming, three second smile is one of the most basic, highly effective ice breakers there is. Often, we brush simple things aside as being too simple not realizing the simplest things can have the big