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你們之間發(fā)展出長(zhǎng)久的友誼和有價(jià)值的合作關(guān)系。 A bad ice breaker, however, can be a recipe for disaster. It can spiral out of control pretty quickly and at best be a terrible waste of time or worse an embarrassment for everyone involved. So, how do you start a meaningful conversation with someone new and avoid embarrassments or awkward moments of silence? Where do you begin? 然而一句糟糕的開場(chǎng)白則可能引發(fā)災(zāi)難。它會(huì)讓場(chǎng)面很快失控,至少也浪費(fèi)了時(shí)間,搞不好還會(huì)讓每個(gè)人都尷尬。那么你該如何和初次見面的人開始一場(chǎng)有意義的交談,而且避免尷尬和冷場(chǎng)呢?你該怎么進(jìn)行開場(chǎng)? Understand that it is normal to feel a bit nervous when approaching someone new. Everyone gets a little shy at first。 after all, you don’t know what this other person is like. The person could be a grumpy, mean guy, but the only way to know for sure what the person is like is to get over being shy and approach them. That person might turn out to be the nicest, kindest person you ever meet. 你要明白,和一個(gè)陌生人接近時(shí)感到有點(diǎn)緊張是很正常的。最開始每個(gè)人都會(huì)有些害羞,畢竟你不清楚對(duì)方是怎樣的人。那個(gè)人也許是個(gè)壞脾氣的討厭鬼,但唯一確定這個(gè)人個(gè)性的辦法就是克服害羞,去接近他。也許這個(gè)人會(huì)成為你所遇到的最親切最善良的人。 Start by filling your idea vault with possible ice breakers to start a conversation and followup questions to sustain the conversation. Listen attentively to the other person’s responses because this can make or break your followup questions. To help you out with ideas for starting a conversation, here are ten of the most effective ice breakers you can use in different scenarios to get a conversation off and running. 一開始你應(yīng)該想好各種可能的開場(chǎng)白以便開始這場(chǎng)對(duì)話,并且準(zhǔn)備后續(xù)的問題讓對(duì)話持續(xù)下去。仔細(xì)傾聽對(duì)方的回應(yīng),因?yàn)檫@會(huì)影響到你后續(xù)問題的成敗。為了幫助你開始一場(chǎng)對(duì)話, 下面是10句最有用的開場(chǎng)白,你可以用于不同場(chǎng)合,讓對(duì)話開始并進(jìn)行下去。 hello 1. “How are you doing today, miss?” “小姐,今天過得怎么樣?” A genuine hello acpanied by a heartwarming, three second smile is one of the most basic, highly effective ice breakers there is. Often, we brush simple things aside as being too simple not realizing the simplest things can have the big