【正文】 ot too old or too sick and could pass the reigns of power onto his 他到死都會是埃及的獨裁者 一直到他年老或臥病 再把他的權力交給下一代And something else happened And maybe you thought you were going to grow up and marry your high school sweetheart and move back to your home town and raise a bunch of kids 你會長大、嫁給你的初戀情人 搬回老家，生一群孩子And something else happened And I have to tell you that I thought I was writing an incredibly nerdy book about a subject everybody hates for an audience that would never 我以為我寫的是一本很冷僻的書 有關一個人人討厭的主題 為一些從不存在的讀者And something else happened (Laughter)I mean, this is life.(笑聲)我們的人生For good and for ill, we generate these incredible stories about the world around us, and then the world turns around and astonishes 我們創(chuàng)造了啦 那包圍我們的世界 而世界轉過頭來，令我們大吃一驚No offense, but this entire conference is an unbelievable monument to our capacity to get stuff ，這整個會議 充斥著這樣難以置信的時刻 我們一次又一次地意識到自己的錯誤We just spent and entire week talking about innovations and advancements and improvements, but you know why we need all of those innovations我們花了整整一周 討論創(chuàng)新，進步 和改善 你知道我們?yōu)樯趺葱枰@些創(chuàng)新and advancements and improvements?進步和改善嗎?Because half the stuff that39。m not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen , just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching was that wasn39。t imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don39。 Brown said, and I quote, “Shame can39。and time to take back my 39。ve changed beliefs about samesex marriage, more people have been offered equal we began valuing sustainability, more people began to as far as our culture of humiliation goes, what we need is a cultural shaming as a blood sport has to stop, and it39。t quite understand, and then eventually I realized she was reliving 1998, reliving a time when she sat by my bed every night, reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom door open, and reliving a time when both of my parents feared that I would be humiliated to death, too many parents haven39。m probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn39。s the host of the 我訪問了那個廣播節(jié)目的主持人 Ira GlassAnd I mentioned this to him, and he was like, “No actually, that39。t work, when it turns out that people who disagree with us have all the same facts we do and are actually pretty smart，一旦第二個定論也不成立 當這些反對我們的人 和我們有一樣的信息 又聰明then we move on to a third assumption: they know the truth, and they are deliberately distorting it for their own malevolent 他們知道事實是甚么 但卻為了自己的好處 故意曲解真實。ve gotten something 就開始手足無措Because according to this, getting something wrong means there39。s when he When we39。s up with the Chinese character I keep seeing by the side of the road?”My friend looks at me totally 我轉向我的朋友 問她一個 兩千英里路途上 一直煩惱我的問題，“路邊那個一直出現(xiàn)的中文字到底是什么?”我的朋友露出疑惑的神情There39。s actually a gentleman in the front row who39。re wrong about somethingnot when we realize it, but before thatwe39。s something wrong with因為依照規(guī)定 犯錯 代表我們一定也有甚么不對勁So we just insist that we39。So this is a This attachment to our own rightness keeps us from preventing mistakes when we absolutely need to and causes us to treat each other 讓我們在最需要的時候 無法預防犯錯 更讓我們互相仇視 to me, what39。s 他回答我“事實上In fact,” he says, “as a staff, we joke that every single episode of our show has the same ”他說 “我們這些工作人員總是 開玩笑說每集節(jié)目之中的 秘密主題都是一樣的And the cryptotheme is: 39。t make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22? 39。t had the chance to step in and rescue their loved many have learned of their child39。s time for an intervention on the Internet and in our shift begins with something simple, but it39。s also not just about saving who is suffering from shame and public humiliation needs to know one thing: You can survive know it39。ve got a passion deficit, an empathy Bren233。s tragic, senseless death was a turning point for served to recontextualize my experiences, and I then began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around me and see something 1998, we had no way of knowing where this brave new technology called the Internet would take then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways, joining lost siblings, saving lives, launching revolutions, but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slutshaming that I experienced had day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can39。t the president of the United States of course, life is full of a day goes by that I39。 And thing is,” says Ira Glass, “we need ”我以為這件事會這樣發(fā)生 結果其它事情發(fā)生了“ 他說”但是，這就是我們需要的We need these moments of surprise and reversal and wrongness to make these stories work.“我們需要這些意外 這些顛倒和錯誤 這些故事才能成立。s like we want to imagine that our minds are just these perfectly translucent windows and we just gaze out of them and describe the world as it 我們的心靈之窗完全透明 我們向外觀看 描述在我們之前展開的世界And we want everybody else to gaze out of the same window and see the exact same 對世界做出一樣的觀察That is not true, and if it were, life would be incredibly 如果是，人生將會多么無聊The miracle of your mind isn39。s in Israel 在波士頓It39。s gone off the cliff and before he looks 在我們意識到我們犯錯時 我們就像那只土狼 還沒意識到自己奔出懸崖You know, we39。m like, “You know, all the signs we keep seeing with the Chinese character on them.”正如現(xiàn)在坐在第一排的這三位男士 所露出的神情一樣，笑聲)我說“你知道的 我們一直看到的那個路牌 寫著中文的那個啊”She just stares at me for a few moments, and then she cracks up, because she figures out what I39。我們年輕、無業(yè)，于是整個旅程都在鄉(xiāng)間小道 經(jīng)過州立公園 和國家保護森林 我們盡可能繞著最長的路徑And somewhere in the middle of South Dakota, I turn to my friend and I ask her a question that39。s totally fine 如果你是個六歲兒童 土狼也很好He just keeps runningright up until the moment that he looks down and realizes that he39。ve already learned, first of all,