【正文】 s acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for Internet is the superhighway for the id, but online, showing empathy to others benefits us all and helps create a safer and better need to municate online with passion, consume news with passion, and click with imagine walking a mile in someone else39。s a lot of pain, and there are no perimeters around how many people can publicly observe you and put you in a public is a very personal price to public humiliation, and the growth of the Internet has jacked up that nearly two decades now, we have slowly been sowing the seeds of shame and public humiliation in our cultural soil, both onand websites, paparazzi, reality programming, politics, news outlets and sometimes hackers all traffic in 39。listen as I confess my love for the president, and, of course, my heartbreak。m wrong.”或許我錯了。t really know what39。ve got a problem to solve, which is, how are you going to explain all of those people who disagree with you?當(dāng)你有這種感覺的時候 你的問題就大了 因?yàn)槿绻闶菍Φ?為甚么還有人和你持不同意見?It turns out, most of us explain those people the same way, by resorting to a series of unfortunate 思考方式去解釋這些異議The first thing we usually do when someone disagrees with us is we just assume they39。s too 我們身體里沒有任何機(jī)制 提醒我們錯了 直到木已成舟But there39。We all know everybody in this room makes The human species, in general, is fallibleokay 都會跳下懸崖which is fine, he39。So it39。ve spent the last five years thinking about being ，就像 Chris 剛才說的 過去五年的時間 我都在思考錯誤的價值This might strike you as a strange career move, but it actually has one great advantage: no job 但有一項(xiàng)好處是不容置疑的： 沒有競爭者。it feels like being 正確的感覺一樣(Laughter)So this is one reason, a structural reason, why we get stuck inside this feeling of rightness.(笑聲)事實(shí)上我們這種自以為對的感受 是有構(gòu)造性的原因的I call this error Most of the time, we don39。And when we act like it is, and we stop entertaining the possibility that we could be wrong, well that39。s like to be some other person in some other 思考未來 我們想象 自己成為他人，在他方And we all do this a little differently, which is why we can all look up at the same night sky and see this and also this and also 于是當(dāng)我們抬頭看同一個夜空 我們看到這個 這個 和這個And yeah, it is also why we get things 1,200 years before Descartes said his famous thing about “I think therefore I am,”在笛卡兒說出那句有名的”我思故我在“ 的一千兩百年前this guy, , sat down and wrote “Fallor ergo sum”“I err therefore I am.”圣奧古斯丁，坐下來 寫下“Fallor ergo sum”“我錯故我在”Augustine understood that our capacity to screw up, it39。s my jet pack, Chris?(笑聲)我的逃生火箭在哪，Chris?(Laughter)(Applause)So here we are again.(笑聲)(掌聲)于是我們又在這里And that39。m listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year 39。s focused on helping young people on various issues,released a staggering statistic late last year: From XX to XX, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and s related to metaanalysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline you know what shocked me, although it shouldn39。s consistency over time, change can the online world, we can foster minority influence by being bee an upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive ment for someone or report a bullying me, passionate ments help abate the can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with these kinds of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the , In the , there39。ve been asked the most is now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in those questions, and the answer has nothing to do with top note answer was and is because it39。s every click, we make a more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more accepted it is, the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online ? Because they all have humiliation at their behavior is a symptom of the culture we39。t even few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and trans, those stolen words, form a part of people can read the trans is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available public humiliation was was almost was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people39。re looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a , that39。m listening, and at some point, I start feeling like all the stories are about being 突然發(fā)現(xiàn) 這些故事全和犯錯有關(guān)And my first thought was, “I39。re going to see the light and e on over to our 當(dāng)我們慷慨地和他們分享我們的知識 他們便會理解，并加入我們的行列When that doesn39。s the dumb kid, the troublemaker, the one who never does his ，搗蛋鬼 從不做功課的壞學(xué)生So by the time you are nine years old, you39。re six years oldis that the coyote39。re young and unemployed, so we do the whole thing on back roads through state parks and national forestsbasically the longest route we can possibly 我在上大學(xué) 我和一個朋友開車去玩 從羅得島的普羅旺斯區(qū)出發(fā) 到奧勒岡州的波特蘭市。m talking 突然笑開了 因?yàn)樗偹阒牢宜笧楹蜛nd what I39。re already wrong, we39。s the teaching hospital for Harvardone of the best hospitals in the 全國數(shù)一數(shù)二的醫(yī)療中心So this woman es in and she39。t that you can see the world as it 不在你懂得這個世界是甚么樣子It39?！盇nd for the rest of us, audience members, as listeners, as readers, we eat this stuff 聽眾、讀者 我們吸收這些故事We love things like plot twists and red herrings and surprise 令人驚訝的結(jié)局When it es to our stories, we love being 看到犯錯But, you know, our stories are like this because our lives are like ，故事會這樣寫 是因?yàn)槿松褪沁@樣We think this one thing is going to happen and something else happens 發(fā)生的卻是其它事George Bush thought he was going to invade Iraq, find a bunch of weapons of mass destruction, liberate the people and bring democracy to the Middle 會找到大規(guī)模毀滅性武器 解放中東百姓，為他們帶來民主自由And something else happened And Hosni Mubarak thought he was going to be dictator of Egypt for the rest of his life, until he g