【正文】 ll have the courage to look them in the eye and hear their point of view and help make sure that the speed and distance and anonymity of our world doesn39。t just change the lives of those who were helped, but the lives of those who also did the reminded us that no matter who we are or what we look like or what we may believe it is both possible and more importantly it bees powerful to e together in mon purpose and mon saw something on the bill moore show recently that so reminded me of this was an interview with david and francine lost their 7 year old son, ben in the sandy hook even though gun safety legislation to strengthen background checks had just been voted down in congress at the time that they were doing this interview they talked about how they refused to be said this, she said “our hearts are broken but our spirits are 39。re down there in the hole, it looks like this past year i had to spoon feed those words to when you39。m going to address my remarks to anybody who has ever felt inferior or felt disadvantaged, felt screwed by life, this is a speech for the i was so honored i wanted to do something really special for wanted to be able to have you look under your seats and there would be free master and doctor degrees but i see you got that covered will be honest with felt a lot of pressure over the past few weeks to e up with something that i could share with you that you hadn39。當你到了人生谷底，到那時候，你可以難過一段時間，給自己時間去哀悼你認為你可能失去的一切，但關鍵在于：從每個失敗和遭遇中學習特別是你的每個錯誤，都會教并迫使你成為真正的自己，然后想想接下來怎么做。我心想：“你讓我給哈佛的畢業(yè)生演講?我能跟這些世界上最成功的畢業(yè)生說什么？而我已經(jīng)不再成功。我可以告訴你們，當我今天早上坐在這個臺上，為你們和我自己流下眼淚的時候，我覺得今天是我漫長并被祝福的人生旅途中的一個里程碑。你們現(xiàn)在或許對離開舒適的大學生活會有些焦慮，并對于讓社會檢驗自己的哈佛文憑心存猶豫，但無論你們在日后遭遇任何的挑戰(zhàn)、挫折與失意，只要內心目標堅定，就能獲得真正的成功與快樂。然而就在他們接受采訪的同時，國會的投票否決了提出加強背景調查的“槍支安全法”，他們表示絕不會氣餒。我所做的僅僅是號召我的觀眾，“盡己所能，無論地域與地位，如果可能，請貢獻出你們的時間、智慧與財力。在過去的一年中，我時刻提醒自己牢記這一點。但生活的挑戰(zhàn)在于創(chuàng)建一份不僅陳述所期望的職位的履歷，而且上面要明確成就怎樣的自我。當我明確一切的時候，我利用電視這種媒介手段讓天使網(wǎng)絡做的更好，而不是單純成為電視節(jié)目的一部分。無論英雄人物還是家庭主婦，受害者抑或是案件中的被告人。談職業(yè)生涯所做訪談的共同性 beyonce in all her beyonceness...they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you? 我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我所有的訪談有一個共同性，那就是人人都希望自己被認可、被理解。在奧普拉在今天早上來的路上，nagy教授說：“溫福瑞女士，請堅決地向前走。溫弗瑞(oprah winfrey)在哈佛的畢業(yè)典禮上為畢業(yè)生們獻上了一場精彩勵志演講。m going to speak the truth of it!so i39。s not just a collection of titles and positions but a story that39。re the generation that rejected predictions about your detachment and your disengagement by showing up to vote in record numbers in when the pundits said they said they talked about you, they said you39。ll be just don39。 you care about these issues and maybe there are other challenges that you, class of XX, are passionate you want to make a difference by serving in you want to launch your own television maybe you simply want to collect some parents would appreciate that about point is your generation is charged with this task of breaking through what the body politic has thus far made impervious to of you has been blessed with this enormous opportunity of attending this prestigious now have a chance to better your life, the lives of your neighbors and also the life of our you do that let me tell you what i know for 39。s a resume that doesn39。t last always” from that hymn, “this too shall pass.” and i thought as i got out of the shower i am going to turn this thing around and i will be better for when i do, i39。人生唯一目標就是做真實的自己，失敗只是一個新的開始。這一切都是因為我想在來哈佛之前把事情做好，所以非常感謝你們！你們不知道你們給了我多大的動力，謝謝！我甚至能更驕傲地來和各位分享一個基本的真理。所以我離開了“奧普拉秀”，以我的名字命名推出了我自己的電視網(wǎng)絡“奧普拉 her own biggest personal 我突然想到某首古老贊美詩中的一句話：“困難只是暫時的”，我遇到的麻煩同樣會有結束的一天。我們大多數(shù)人并不愿意被分類，但是我從所有采訪對象身上發(fā)現(xiàn)一個共同性，那就是人人都希望被認可、被理解。作為一個19歲就出現(xiàn)在電視節(jié)目中的孩子，起初我并不明白這個道理，直到1994年才有所醒悟?！闭沁@張搶眼的名片可以成就你們的未來之路。關鍵在于：要從錯誤中汲取教訓，因為所有經(jīng)驗，尤其是你犯下的錯誤，都將幫助你、推動你更好地做自己，確定下一步何去何從。”觀眾也用行動表明了一切。我要找到一種新的對話方式來告訴他們什么是愛，而不是盲目與之斗爭。盡己所能，提升自己與家人以及周圍的人。我的演講是為那些曾在人生中感到自卑或覺得自己沒有優(yōu)勢，甚至覺得生活一團糟的人，這就是我給哈佛帶來的演講。要么去吃奧利奧要么去洗澡，我選擇了洗澡。在這個競爭激烈的世界，那的確是塊敲門磚。t have to necessarily go to harvard to have a driven obsessive type a it while i may not have graduated from here i admit that my personality is about as harvard as they know my television career began you heard this morning i was in the miss fire prevention was when i was 16 years old in nashville, tennessee and you had the requirement of having to have red hair in order to win up until the year that i they were doing the question and answer period because i knew i wasn39。s really okay to feel bad for a little yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here39。s like to find a conversation about change that is love, and i39。s shoes and recognize all that we share as a is imperative for you as an individual and for our success as a nation.”there has to be some way that this darkness can be banished with light,“ says the man whose little boy was massacred on just an ordinary friday in whether you call it soul or spirit or higher self, intelligence, there is i know this, there is a light inside each of you all of us that illuminates your very human beingness if you let as a young girl from rural mississippi i learned long ago that being myself was much easier than pretending to be barbara when i first started because i had barbara in my head i would try to sit like barbara, talk like barbara, move like barbara and then one night i was on the news reading the news and i called canada canada, and that was the end of me being cracked myself up on 39。ve heard it from heroes and from 39。t expect the clarity to e all at once to know your purpose right away, but what became clear to me was that i was here on earth to use television and not be used by it。re constantly doing what we do, raising the you39。m honored doesn39。當你真的跌倒時我想讓你知道，并請記?。骸笆篱g并不存在失敗，那不過是生活想讓我們換個方向走走罷了，現(xiàn)在當你在人生谷底，那看起來像是失敗。我壓力超大近乎崩潰，老實說，我感到羞愧。對我而言，榮幸根本無法表達我內心深處對哈佛授予我榮譽學位的感激之情?！氨厝粫蟹椒ㄊ构饷黩屪吆诎?，”這出自一位兒子慘遭殺害的父親之口，十二月一個平常的周五他失去了自己的孩子。威勒夫婦。這個九歲大的小女孩促使我思考，僅憑一個存錢罐與雄心壯志就能做到這樣，那我可以做些什么呢？于是我號召我的觀眾們捐出他們的零錢，在一個月內，僅僅是一枚枚零錢硬幣就募到了300萬美金。我希望屆時各位可以記?。菏郎喜⒉淮嬖谑?，那不過是生活試圖將我們推向另一個方向罷了。你的使命是什么？你的信仰是什么？你的目標是什么