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s very many cars just after midnight after a Friday I can39。ll talk about study after study after study, so you39。s at the same time it39。s counterintuitive to some extent.“39。ll study research in this even more than that, we39。s in managing organizations, whether it39。t think that is what will I hope will happen is for you to e and say, rather than ”thank you for teaching me“, something you would say ”thank you for reminding me of something that I39。s all been literally uphill from Martin Seligman, this all happened in 1998 and we39。t have it last 39。ll take a positive psychology break for just stop me half way through and I39。m teaching this class because I wish a class like this had been taught when I was sitting in your seat as an undergrad does not mean it is a class you wish to be taught, nor does it mean that it is the right class for I hope to doing the next couple of lectures is giving you an idea what this class is about so that you can decide whether or not it is for came here in 1992 And then I had a mini epiphany half way through my sophomore realized that I was in a wonderful place with wonderful students around me, wonderful was doing well was doing well in was playing squash at that was doing well was going for the I was I didn39。d like you to take active that means being engaged with the example, if you heard something and idea and you say, “Oh, that39。m paying 40,000 dollars a year for? To sit a class and be quiet?” First of all, it will only be a minute or two at a time, maybe once or twice a second, it is maybe the most important thing you39。s much more than is about taking this form and changing ,(which is)change, form,(which is) the is is the distinction that I learned first from at the Robert Kegan who taught about in and of itself is not about this go for an athletic aim is to get into the top threeto be a e in number 39。m making mon sense more in and of itself is simply not 39。s about chipping away the excess stone because as kids, we are always asking are always me show you a quick excerpt from a video of one of my favorite psychologists, actually the edian, will watch a lot of excerpts throughout the about what we were like as is this in your way “So, the first couple of years I made my own costumes which of course sucked: the ghost, the hobo...Then, finally, the third year, begging the parents, I got the Superman Halloween box, selfmade top, mask the rubber band on the back of that mask? That was a quality item there, wasn39。m going to encourage you more than anything to look inside study it39。s important to counter it, to add to it, academic work, studying 39。d be taking this class would be taking it because they are already really happy and they want to study about how amazing they they39。s why the one element of pass/fail is not negotiable is that all the response papers have to be the response papers, as you know, are not are basically reflection you reflect about the ideas about things that can be applied to your life? But they are3through the taught the Thursday started 2 years started on I taught on Thursday, pletely lecture I made it through I went to home and I couldn39。t have any future careful up I bee very wistful and then I ask myself,“ Ok so professionally, what would I want to do in that last year?” So I know personally exactly what I39。t slept for it wait till tomorrow morning?“And the doctor said,‖ he has to go to Beth Israel, because they have the best labs for what he needs right now.” And she doesn39。s positive psychologypeople that are very unhappy? Is it only for people who are depressed? Who is this class for?“ Well, the class is for anyone who is interested in Positive psychology and anyone who wants to be you are extremely happy, you can still be you are very unhappy, you can still be the class essentially is for anyone who39。ll do that probably more than any other class on this may be news to you, but this is not English 10A or Math 55, meaning you39。whether it39。s culturally insensitive, arguably one of the most sensitive people yet he said we are focusing too much on cultural differences and he added not because there are no cultural course there are and they are there are many more similarities than we shouldn39。ll be asking, you39。s not about this one Wow to the good many of the things you will learn in this class, you39。m still 39。s like a 39。t really care but had to ask anyway, “how different?” And they would say, “Well you know, we expected you to be more outgoing.” Next interview, the end of the interview, same thing.“Thank you for doing the you know Tal, I expected you to be different.” And once again, nonchalant of course.“Well you know, we expected you to be less, less introversit.” Next interview, same thing.“How different?”“Well, you know, more outgoing.” Next interview.“Well, you know, less shy.” Coz I get very nervous in after interview, literally outgoing, more introverted, more on and here is the best this is one of the local channels here around was going to the had a quite long interview, which I thought was actually pretty at the end of the interview, the interviewer is a very jolly walks me out and puts his hands on my shoulder, and says, “thank you very much for doing the interview.” And then the usual es.“But you know Tal, I expected you to be different.” And I said, “How different?” Just so you understand, by this time, my selfesteem is still with some resemblance of nonchalance I asked, “how different?” And he looks at me and says, “Well I don39。s larger than Introduction to Economics”.How could that be? So I was invited by the media for interviews, whether it was newspapers, radio, I started to notice a pattern during those I would walk into the would have the afterwards, the producer or the interviewer would walk me out and say something to the effects of “well thank you Tal for the you know I expected you to be different”.And I would ask, as nonchalant as I could of didn39