【正文】 hat caused the differences. Key words: etiquette， table manner， difference， culture， reason 摘要 : 隨著中國(guó)對(duì)外開(kāi)放程度的逐漸深入，西方社會(huì)的文化越來(lái)越多地映入了我們的眼簾 .由于我們所面對(duì)的是來(lái)自陌生的文化和國(guó)家，思維方式、生活習(xí)慣和行為方式與我們迥然不同的人，在與之交往的過(guò)程中不可避免的會(huì)出現(xiàn)文化沖突的現(xiàn)象，嚴(yán)重影響了交往的順利進(jìn)行。 it will show their hospitality. D、 Seat arrangement Chinese and the Western dinner table etiquette have the slight difference. As we use different type of tables, we have different seat arrangements. As China generally use round table and the regular arrangement is: the seats which affronts to the door are the most important seats. So the oldest or the guest of honor or the high state guest will sit at the dooraffront seats. The host and the hostess will sit at the lesser seats along with the ordinarily guests. Nearby the important seats39。 his parents will get very angry for this. And the other different things: In China, men always smoke after they finish the meal, they think it is a kind of enjoyment, while, in western countries, they consider this behavior is not polite to women and children and it is also a rude thing to smoke on a table. So, it is very important for us to recognize and use the different regulation behaviors when we do business between foreign countries. In order to ensure the munication will be smoothly, you should understand each other’s conduct. Especially remember the forbidden things and impolite things. The best way is when in Rome, do as Roman’s do. IV. Conclusion Along with the development of the open policy, it is mon to municate with foreigners, but the munication between different countries is not so easily. As more and more corporation panies established in China, petition between these panies bee more severity, so step up the serve bee very important. 9 They must ensure the correct manner when they affiliate with foreigners. We all know table manner is unavoidable during the munication, more and more panies focus on the etiquette training. So as the graduate students we must bases on the requirement of the labor market. We will enter the society later, before this we must get the full preparation of being a good worker. Only when we learn the different culture and practice it, we could be match the marketing requirement, find job quickly and do right things during the munication. By doing this can we make our work easier to be handled and work with great efficiency when we bee a worker. 10 Bibliography: ， 東西方文化對(duì)比小議《太原重型機(jī)械學(xué)院學(xué)報(bào)》 ， 2021年第 22卷第 4期 ， 279282 ， 試論跨文化語(yǔ)境下的大學(xué)英語(yǔ)教學(xué)《黑龍江高教研究》 ， 2021年第 6期 ， 153154 ， 中西習(xí)俗文化 “沖突 ”《綏化師專學(xué)報(bào)》 ， 2021年第 1期 ， 9092 4.