【正文】 stories, and, of course, cruel sources plastered photos of me all over to sell newspapers, banner ads online, and to keep people tuned to the you recall a particular image of me, say, wearing a beret?Now, I admit I made mistakes, especially wearing that the attention and judgment that I received, not the story, but that I personally received, was was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and, of course, that was seen by many but actually known by I get it: it was easy to forget that that woman was dimensional, had a soul, and was once this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for we call it cyberbullying(網(wǎng)絡(luò)欺凌)andonline harassment(網(wǎng)絡(luò)騷擾).Today, I want to share some of my experience with you, talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations, and how I hope my past experience can lead to a change that results in less suffering for 1998, I lost my reputation and my lost almost everything, and I almost lost my me paint a picture for is September of 39。t even few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and trans, those stolen words, form a part of people can read the trans is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available public humiliation was was almost was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people39。t, and there39。s every click, we make a more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more accepted it is, the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online ? Because they all have humiliation at their behavior is a symptom of the culture we39。t survive empathy.” Shame cannot survive 39。ve been asked the most is now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in those questions, and the answer has nothing to do with top note answer was and is because it39。time to stop living a life of opprobrium。s consistency over time, change can the online world, we can foster minority influence by being bee an upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive ment for someone or report a bullying me, passionate ments help abate the can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with these kinds of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the , In the , there39。ve seen that to be true with racism, homophobia, and plenty of other biases, today and in the we39。s focused on helping young people on various issues,released a staggering statistic late last year: From XX to XX, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and s related to metaanalysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline you know what shocked me, although it shouldn39。s for both public and private consequences for some have bee dire, very was on the phone with my mom in September of XX, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler , sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his was mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family, and she was gutted with painin a way that I just couldn39。m listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year 39。m in rap 40 rap the night of my speech, a surprising thing the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27yearold know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 realized later that night, I39。s my jet pack, Chris?(笑聲)我的逃生火箭在哪，Chris?(Laughter)(Applause)So here we are again.(笑聲)(掌聲)于是我們又在這里And that39。ve bee the crazy wrongness I just imagined it everywhere,”四處都看到有關(guān)犯錯的幻覺”which has But a couple of months later, I actually had a chance to interview Ira Glass, who39。s like to be some other person in some other 思考未來 我們想象 自己成為他人，在他方And we all do this a little differently, which is why we can all look up at the same night sky and see this and also this and also 于是當我們抬頭看同一個夜空 我們看到這個 這個 和這個And yeah, it is also why we get things 1,200 years before Descartes said his famous thing about “I think therefore I am,”在笛卡兒說出那句有名的”我思故我在“ 的一千兩百年前this guy, , sat down and wrote “Fallor ergo sum”“I err therefore I am.”圣奧古斯丁，坐下來 寫下“Fallor ergo sum”“我錯故我在”Augustine understood that our capacity to screw up, it39。re (Laughter)They have all the right pieces of the puzzle, and they are too moronic to put them together correctly.(笑聲)他們已經(jīng)有了所有的信息 卻笨到無法拼湊出正確的圖像And when that doesn39。And when we act like it is, and we stop entertaining the possibility that we could be wrong, well that39。re all CFO, astrophysicists, ultramarathoners, it turns out.(笑聲)結(jié)果是你們?nèi)闪素攧?wù)長、天體物理學(xué)家、跑超級馬拉松 Okay, so Except that then we freak out at the possibility that we39。it feels like being 正確的感覺一樣(Laughter)So this is one reason, a structural reason, why we get stuck inside this feeling of rightness.(笑聲)事實上我們這種自以為對的感受 是有構(gòu)造性的原因的I call this error Most of the time, we don39。s in 直到牠往下看 發(fā)現(xiàn)自己漫步在空中That39。ve spent the last five years thinking about being ，就像 Chris 剛才說的 過去五年的時間 我都在思考錯誤的價值This might strike you as a strange career move, but it actually has one great advantage: no job 但有一項好處是不容置疑的： 沒有競爭者。s been bothering me for 2,000 miles.“What39。So it39。s doing a perfect imitation of her look.(Laughter)And I39。We all know everybody in this room makes The human species, in general, is fallibleokay 都會跳下懸崖which is fine, he39。re like that coyote after he39。s too 我們身體里沒有任何機制 提醒我們錯了 直到木已成舟But there39。re right, because it makes us feel smart and responsible and virtuous and 因為那讓我們感覺聰明、得體 安全和可靠