【正文】 time when she sat by my bed every night, reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom door open, and reliving a time when both of my parents feared that I would be humiliated to death, too many parents haven39。t have, was other research last year that determined humiliation was a more intensely felt emotion than either happiness or even to others is nothing new, but online, technologically enhanced shaming is amplified, uncontained, and permanently echo of embarrassment used to extend only as far as your family, village, school or munity, but now it39。ve changed beliefs about samesex marriage, more people have been offered equal we began valuing sustainability, more people began to as far as our culture of humiliation goes, what we need is a cultural shaming as a blood sport has to stop, and it39。s AntiBullying Pro, and in Australia, there39。and time to take back my 39。d like to end on a personal the past nine months, the question I39。 Brown said, and I quote, “Shame can39。re in a dangerous more we click on this kind of gossip, the more numb we get to the human lives behind it, and the more numb we get, the more we the while, someone is making money off of the back of someone else39。t imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don39。listen, deeply, deeply ashamed, to the worst version of myself,a self I don39。m not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen , just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching was that wasn39。萊溫斯基ted演講稿(英文版)You39?！盇nd for the rest of us, audience members, as listeners, as readers, we eat this stuff 聽眾、讀者 我們吸收這些故事We love things like plot twists and red herrings and surprise 令人驚訝的結(jié)局When it es to our stories, we love being 看到犯錯(cuò)But, you know, our stories are like this because our lives are like ，故事會(huì)這樣寫 是因?yàn)槿松褪沁@樣We think this one thing is going to happen and something else happens 發(fā)生的卻是其它事George Bush thought he was going to invade Iraq, find a bunch of weapons of mass destruction, liberate the people and bring democracy to the Middle 會(huì)找到大規(guī)模毀滅性武器 解放中東百姓，為他們帶來民主自由And something else happened And Hosni Mubarak thought he was going to be dictator of Egypt for the rest of his life, until he got too old or too sick and could pass the reigns of power onto his 他到死都會(huì)是埃及的獨(dú)裁者 一直到他年老或臥病 再把他的權(quán)力交給下一代And something else happened And maybe you thought you were going to grow up and marry your high school sweetheart and move back to your home town and raise a bunch of kids 你會(huì)長大、嫁給你的初戀情人 搬回老家，生一群孩子And something else happened And I have to tell you that I thought I was writing an incredibly nerdy book about a subject everybody hates for an audience that would never 我以為我寫的是一本很冷僻的書 有關(guān)一個(gè)人人討厭的主題 為一些從不存在的讀者And something else happened (Laughter)I mean, this is life.(笑聲)我們的人生For good and for ill, we generate these incredible stories about the world around us, and then the world turns around and astonishes 我們創(chuàng)造了啦 那包圍我們的世界 而世界轉(zhuǎn)過頭來，令我們大吃一驚No offense, but this entire conference is an unbelievable monument to our capacity to get stuff ，這整個(gè)會(huì)議 充斥著這樣難以置信的時(shí)刻 我們一次又一次地意識(shí)到自己的錯(cuò)誤We just spent and entire week talking about innovations and advancements and improvements, but you know why we need all of those innovations我們花了整整一周 討論創(chuàng)新，進(jìn)步 和改善 你知道我們?yōu)樯趺葱枰@些創(chuàng)新and advancements and improvements?進(jìn)步和改善嗎?Because half the stuff that39。m listening and I39。t that you can see the world as it 不在你懂得這個(gè)世界是甚么樣子It39。t have access to the same information that we do, and when we generously share that information with them, they39。s the teaching hospital for Harvardone of the best hospitals in the 全國數(shù)一數(shù)二的醫(yī)療中心So this woman es in and she39。re sitting there in class, and your teacher is handing back quiz papers, and one of them looks like 你的老師發(fā)回小考考卷 像這樣的小考考卷This is not mine, by the (Laughter)So there you are in grade school, and you know exactly what to think about the kid who got this paper.(笑聲)你從小學(xué)時(shí)代 就知道該對(duì)拿這張考卷的同學(xué) 下甚么評(píng)語It39。re already wrong, we39。s funnyat least if you39。m talking 突然笑開了 因?yàn)樗偹阒牢宜笧楹蜛nd what I39。m in college, and a friend and I go on a road trip from Providence, Rhode Island to Portland, you know, we39。re young and unemployed, so we do the whole thing on back roads through state parks and national forestsbasically the longest route we can possibly 我在上大學(xué) 我和一個(gè)朋友開車去玩 從羅得島的普羅旺斯區(qū)出發(fā) 到奧勒岡州的波特蘭市。m talking about is (Laughter)Right, the famous Chinese character for piic area.(笑聲)沒錯(cuò)，這就是代表野餐區(qū)的那個(gè)中文字(Laughter)I39。re six years oldis that the coyote39。re already in trouble, but we feel like we39。s the dumb kid, the troublemaker, the one who never does his ，搗蛋鬼 從不做功課的壞學(xué)生So by the time you are nine years old, you39。s taken into the operating She39。re going to see the light and e on over to our 當(dāng)我們慷慨地和他們分享我們的知識(shí) 他們便會(huì)理解，并加入我們的行列When that doesn39。s that you can see the world as it isn39。m listening, and at some point, I start feeling like all the stories are about being 突然發(fā)現(xiàn) 這些故事全和犯錯(cuò)有關(guān)And my first thought was, “I39。s the most mindboggling and world alteringTED 來自最應(yīng)該改變世界的 98年的TED 呃(Laughter)Didn39。re looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a , that39。t my , this scandal was brought to you by the digital meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the Internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a pletely private figure to a publicly humiliated one was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost rush to judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual , it was before social media, but people could still ment online,