【正文】 害孩子的感情與個(gè)性。西方人對(duì)孩子的缺點(diǎn)錯(cuò)誤絕不聽之任之，更不袒護(hù)，而是設(shè)法教孩子自己知錯(cuò)改錯(cuò)。歐美的兒童少年，從小就從事送報(bào)，打工等勞動(dòng)，這本身就是一種吃苦精神的磨練。While in order to help children obtain the ability to survive in this petitive society,American parents give lots of chance for their kods to learn independence but never indulge ，就是從孩子生下來(lái)，父母就設(shè)法給他們自我鍛煉的機(jī)會(huì)和條件，讓他們?cè)诟鞣N環(huán)境中得到充分鍛煉。不少小學(xué)生都擁有手機(jī)、數(shù)碼相機(jī)、MP3等高檔消費(fèi)品，這無(wú)形中助長(zhǎng)了他們奢華浪費(fèi)的習(xí)慣。中國(guó)方面大致體現(xiàn)在以下幾點(diǎn)： Because of the fundamentally different concepts of childraising,the ways of education vary too much between two the Chinese side,the main differences go as 。他們普遍認(rèn)為孩子的成長(zhǎng)必須依靠自身的力量。美國(guó)父母如朋友，他們可以平等的交流，父母與子女的關(guān)系比較密切。他們過(guò)分滿足孩子的任何需要，生活上過(guò)分優(yōu)待孩子，經(jīng)濟(jì)上過(guò)多偏重孩子，這就造成家庭關(guān)系的另一種不平等。他們往往用自己的理性來(lái)干涉孩子們的自然發(fā)展，因此很大程度上剝奪了孩子自由選擇的權(quán)利。家庭對(duì)兒童身體的發(fā)育，知識(shí)的獲得，能力的培養(yǎng)，品德的陶冶，個(gè)性的形成，都是至關(guān)重要的。.Staff members 職前教育 preservice education 職業(yè)道德 professional ethics職業(yè)技術(shù)教育 vocational and technical education 職業(yè)教育 vocational education 職業(yè)學(xué)校 vocational school職業(yè)中學(xué) vocational middle school 植物（學(xué)）系 Department of Botany中、小學(xué)校長(zhǎng) headmaster/headmistress。 union/association 學(xué)士 bachelor學(xué)術(shù)報(bào)告會(huì)，專題討論會(huì) symposium 學(xué)術(shù)活動(dòng) academic activities 學(xué)位 degree學(xué)習(xí)成績(jī) academic record。teachers39。guest professor 課程 course。pupil/student in senior grades 高中 senior middle school工程物理系 Department of Engineering Physics 工業(yè)大學(xué) polytechnic university工業(yè)工程系 Department of Industrial Engineering 工業(yè)管理系 Department of Industrial Management 工業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)系 Department of Industrial Design 工業(yè)學(xué)院 engineering institute公費(fèi)生 governmentsupported student 公開課 open class共產(chǎn)主義道德品質(zhì) munist ethics 共產(chǎn)主義教育 education in munism管理科學(xué)系 Department of Management Science廣播電視大學(xué) television and radio broadcasting university 國(guó)畫系 Department of Tradition Chinese Painting 國(guó)際關(guān)系系 Department of International Relations 國(guó)際經(jīng)濟(jì)系 Department of International Economics 國(guó)際勞工組織 International Labor Organization 國(guó)際貿(mào)易系 Department of International Trade 國(guó)際文化交流 intercultural munication國(guó)際政治系 Department of International Politics 國(guó)際主義教育 education in internationalism 國(guó)家發(fā)明獎(jiǎng) National Invention Prize國(guó)家教育經(jīng)費(fèi) national expenditure on education國(guó)家科技進(jìn)步獎(jiǎng) National Prize for Progress in Science and Technology 國(guó)家統(tǒng)計(jì)局 the State Statistical Bureau國(guó)家自然科學(xué)獎(jiǎng) National Prize for Natural Sciences 海洋學(xué)系 Department of Oceanography 函授大學(xué) correspondence college 航海系 Department of Navigation河流港灣工程系 Department of River amp。graduation certificate 博士 doctor()博士后 post doctorate博士后科研流動(dòng)站 center for postdoctoral studies 補(bǔ)考 makeup examination 補(bǔ)習(xí)學(xué)校 continuation school 不及格 fail材料工程系 Department of Materials Engineering 材料科學(xué)系 Department of Materials Science 財(cái)貿(mào)學(xué)校 finance and trade school 財(cái)政撥款 financial allocation 測(cè)量系 Department of Survey成績(jī)單 school report。chairperson（小學(xué)）校長(zhǎng) Head /Master（職工）子弟學(xué)校 school for children of workers amp。equal stress on integrity and ability 低年級(jí)學(xué)生 lower grade pupil/student。 college for vocational studies 教授 professor教書育人 to educate the person as well as impart book knowledge 教務(wù)長(zhǎng) Dean/Director of Teaching Affairs, dean of studies教學(xué)、科研、生產(chǎn)的“三結(jié)合” “3in1 bination” involving teaching, research, and production 教學(xué)大綱 teaching program。to stay down 留學(xué)生 international student 聾啞學(xué)校 school of deafmutes旅游管理系 Department of Tourist Management 論文導(dǎo)師 supervisor盲人學(xué)校 school for the blind/ blind men’s school 美術(shù)學(xué)院 academy of fine arts 民辦學(xué)校 private school名譽(yù)教授 Honorary Professor 母校 Alma Mater年齡段（層）age bracket農(nóng)學(xué)系 Department of Agriculture 農(nóng)學(xué)院 agricultural college農(nóng)業(yè)大學(xué) agricultural university 農(nóng)業(yè)中學(xué) agricultural middle school 旁聽生（美）auditor旁聽生（英）guest student培養(yǎng)獨(dú)立分析問(wèn)題和解決問(wèn)題的能力 to cultivate the ability to analyze and solve concrete problems independently培養(yǎng)學(xué)生自學(xué)能力 to foster the students39。a socialist education system with distinct Chinese characteristics that meets the needs of socialist modernization and is oriented to the 21st century 授予（學(xué)士）confer授予某人學(xué)位 to confer a degree on jobs數(shù)學(xué)系 Department of Mathematics 雙學(xué)士制 a double BA degree system 水產(chǎn)技術(shù)學(xué)校 marine products technical school 水利系 Department of Water Conservancy 水利學(xué)校 water conservancy school 稅收 tax revenue 碩士 master所學(xué)課程 courses taken 特別訓(xùn)練 special training提高......的思想品德 enhance the moral awareness of...體育活動(dòng) physical activities體育系 Department of Physical Education 體育學(xué)院 physical culture institute 天文學(xué) Department of Astronomy填鴨式教學(xué)法 cramming/forcedfeeding method of teaching 鐵路機(jī)械學(xué)校 railway machinery school 鐵路技術(shù)學(xué)校 railway engineering school聽課 to visit a class。faculty adviser 藥學(xué)系 Department of Pharmacy 藥科大學(xué) pharmaceutical university冶金機(jī)械學(xué)校 metallurgical machinery school 冶金系 Department of Metallurgy 業(yè)余工作 parttime jobs 業(yè)余學(xué)校 sparetime school業(yè)余藝術(shù)/體育學(xué)校 amateur arts/athletic school業(yè)余職工大學(xué) sparetime college for staff and workers 夜校 evening(night)school 醫(yī)科大學(xué) medical university醫(yī)學(xué)工程系 Department of Medical Engineering 醫(yī)學(xué)系 Department of Medicine 醫(yī)學(xué)院 medical college/school遺傳工程系 Department of Genetics Engineering 義務(wù)教育 pulsory education。polytechnic school 中文系 Department of Chinese Language and Literature 中學(xué) middle(secondary)school 中醫(yī)藥大學(xué) university of TCM中醫(yī)院 institute of traditional Chinese medicine 終身教授 Lifetime Professor 重點(diǎn)大學(xué) key university重點(diǎn)學(xué)科 key disciplinary areas or priority fields of study 重點(diǎn)學(xué)校 key school主副修制 a system of a major field of specialization plus a minor field 主修 major 住宿生 boarder助教 Teaching Assistant(.)注冊(cè)人數(shù) enrollment專門課程 specialized courses 專任教師 fulltime teacher 專修科 special(training)course 專業(yè) speciality。因此，正確認(rèn)識(shí)并借鑒國(guó)外先進(jìn)的教育方法，對(duì)促進(jìn)孩子健康成長(zhǎng)、提高未來(lái)人才的素質(zhì)具有很重要的現(xiàn)實(shí)意義。Chinese parents are authorities of the family all the time and paly a dominant role in the family which put parents in the core of the family because of deep influences of traditional believes of family ，父母對(duì)孩子的教導(dǎo)可以持續(xù)到孩子長(zhǎng)大以后許多年。Under this condition,parents are supposed to do anything instead of children themselves and indulge them whatever they ’s wrose,parents are submissive in attitude,pampering in life and generous in proket money so as to meet any possible desires of cauesed an unequal relationship in children need to do is obey all kinds of rules and submit to orders,they have little voice or participation in family the former American president Nixon says”Chinese