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ts the other pole of human existence。另一方面,如果因?yàn)樽约旱膬?yōu)點(diǎn),因?yàn)樽约褐档脨鄱粍e人愛,我們總會心存疑慮:可能我沒有使那個(gè)我希望他(她)愛我的人滿意吧?可能這個(gè),可能那個(gè)——總是害怕那份愛會消失。教育孩子的人是父親,向孩子展示通向世界之路的人也是父親。既然他的愛是有條件的,我可以采取一些辦法去獲取它,我可以為之而努力;他的愛像母愛一樣,并沒有越出我的控制力。在此期間,對于孩子來說,父親的重要性遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)比不上母親。母親愛她的新生嬰兒,因?yàn)槟鞘撬暮⒆?,而不是因?yàn)檫@個(gè)小孩符合了什么特別的條件,也不是因?yàn)楹⒆舆_(dá)到了她的某種特別的期望。 on the other hand, to be loved because of one39。視貧窮如園中之花而像圣人一樣耕植它吧!不要找新的花樣,無論是新的朋友或新的衣服,來麻煩你自己。愛找缺點(diǎn)的人就是到天堂里也能找到缺點(diǎn)。s abode。你觀察他們跳起來撞擊頂蓋,會慢慢發(fā)現(xiàn)一個(gè)有趣的現(xiàn)象。When you take off the lid, the fleas continue to jump, but they will not jump out of the box. They won39。t have enoughh money,our children will get into trouble,we will get old and die,whatever.Without question, many of us have mastered the neurotic art of spending much of our lives worrying about variety of thingsall at once. We allow past problems and future concerns dominate your present moments, so much so that we end up anxious,frustrated,depressed,and hopeless. On the flip side, we also postpone our gratification, our stated priorities, and our happiness, often convincing that someday will be much better than today. Unfortunately, the same mental dynamics that tell us to look toward the future will only repeat themselves so that 39。我們內(nèi)心是否平和在很大程度上是由我們是否能生活在現(xiàn)實(shí)之中所決定的.不管昨天或去年發(fā)生了什么,不管明天可能發(fā)生或不發(fā)生什么,現(xiàn)實(shí)才是你時(shí)時(shí)刻刻所在之處.t. In fact, no one have a guarantee that he or she will be here tomorrow. Now is the only time we have, and the only time that we have any control over. When we put our attention on the present moment, we push fear from our minds. Fear is the concern over events that might happen in the futurewe won39。As you watch them jump and hit the