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in this was, I noticed in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago, that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their praise of me and I39。I39。t know that his son needed to hear it.我非常幸運的在一家康復(fù)中心工作,所以我可以看到那些因為上癮而面臨生與死的人。So my question is, why don39。s good at this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, I39。re supposed to do it?因此我的問題是,為什么我們不索求我們需要的東西呢? 我認(rèn)識一個結(jié)婚25年的男士,他渴望聽到他妻子說,“感謝你為這個家在外賺錢,這樣我才能在家陪伴著孩子?!?他會應(yīng)和到“哦,真是太棒了,真是太棒了?!盨o, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were other people blocking it? Why can I say, I39。m giving you critical data about me. I39。m treating you, my inner circle, like you39。 你可以濫用它。s going to make the bike so much better. I get the same bike back, and they39。 那里的人說:“當(dāng)你對車輪做整形時, 它會使自行車變成更好。 你們想聽到什么呢? 回家問問你們的妻子,她想聽到什么? 回家問問你們的丈夫,他想聽到什么? 回家問問這些問題,并幫助身邊的人實現(xiàn)它們。s never said that to you, but you39。 所以讓我們在家里就把這件事情做好。