【正文】 love to Miriam but this ecstasy spells the end for their relationship. The latter stages of the novel concern Paul’s next passion B. Paul’s love to his mother and Mother’s love to sonsPaul, who is the third child of Mrs. Morel, is more delicate and quiet than any other children with his pale faces, and looks older than the other children at the same age. So his illness tends to further his mother’s love upon him still more. He is very conscious of what other people feel, particularly his mother. When she frets, he can understand her, and can’t keep himself calm at the same time?！癟hey learned how perfect peaceful the home could be. And they almost regretted—though none of them would have owned to such callousness—that their father was soon ing back.“My love my love—oh, my love!”8 According to Paul’s words, we know that how he love his mother and who is his mother in his heart.Mrs. Morel, mother of the sons, is the major character, who es from a good burglar family, civilized and educated well. She also has refined manners paring with the vulgar women in Bottoms. Her husband is from a lower class. He is a struggling coal miner and a heavy drinker. They have nothing in mon. In fact, their marriage life is very frustrated which is full of conflicts. This is why the mother love her sons are deformed.As Mrs. Morel loses her husband’s love, she slowly inexorably transfers her emotions to her children. In her eyes, her sons are her lovers who take position of her husband. She wants to win her son’s love that she can’t get from her husband in order to make up her emotional gap. Her personal abnormal emotion is the direct factor for Paul’s Oedipus plex.When William falls in love with a beautiful girl, the girl often write love letters for him. And the handsome boy usually read these letters for his mother and other family members. At that time, his mother feels very sad and jealousy. And the mother also ridicules William and Lily’s love. There is an obvious thing reflects it. One day, William took a letter which from Lily with joy. He smelled the paper and also felt very excited. He also asked the other members to smell it“Is there nobody else to talk to?—Yes, I know it well—I am old, and therefore I may stand aside。According to Freud’s viewpoint, Paul’s Oedipus plex is very severe. Although he grows up, he can’t transcend the love between the baby and mother?！癊ven though she worship him at any other aspect, butt make him happy..Her dialogue with Paul about chance is convincing“Of knowing anything, of learning of doing anything. It’s not fair, because I’m a woman.”“Ha, Is it Men have everything? I should think women ought to be as glad to be women as men are to be men,” he answered“Not Everything the men have.” 16Miriam plains of the unfairness of gender.Miriam’s fierce wish to be a man must be rather strange to Victorian men. As Paul wonders, in his own home Annie was almost glad to be a girl. She had not so much responsibility things were lighter for her,take care of him“the world would have a different face for her and a deepened respect” 17swallows her ambition, and only dares to think about it when man is physically weak. Woman like Miriam dooms to be a loser because she lacks confidence in her spiritual power However, Lawrence hopes that woman could claim their desire normally and openly, or else she will not only disappointed herself but be even impossible to be accepted by man. The paragraphs that describe herself but be even impossible to be accepted by man— her love of Paul Morel and her resistance to her feelings including the sexual one towards him decide that her love for Paul must bee an.She hopes to be stronger than Paul but is always ready to die for the souls of men. In Paul’s eyes, Miriam is negative in their relationship. His free will is always disciplined by Miriam’s mystical ideas. He is naturally so young and their intimacy is so abstract. He is afraid of her because her piety and purity is like an invisible power which forces him to treat it a shame when he wants her as a man wants a woman. So when Miriam shrinks in her convulsed coils torture from the thought of such a thing he winces to the depths of his soul secondly, she soothes Paul like a child out of the instinct of maternity. However, Paul thinks that he loves Clara when he is with her, and is indifferent toward her when not with her. The sharp contrast between Paul and Clara’s love motivation predicts the fall of their relationship. It again suggests man’s moral standard is somewhat spoiled by their active position in the society, they make the days a misery to woman, but the evenings and the nights“the vitality of men suddenly wake up”21. He thinks that she seems to have“She makes me feel special tired, Mum.” 23 Finally, they broke up. In the end, setting up the love on sex make Paul’s ideal in the pursuit of love on the road once again failed.V. Tragedies Caused By LoveIn this novel, there are several kinds of loves. And the love affects all of the persons. And at last, their love ended in failure. Mrs. Morel and her husband’s love fell, at the beginning of their love, they are very happy. But with her dream shattered, their love was disillusionment. Because the two persons’ contradiction, the tragedy extended to the next generation. The Mother’s failure marriage made her abnormal. She loves her sons, she gave all her love to the sons, but she also wanted to control them, especially control their love life. The eldest sons William loves a girl, she felt jealousy. At last, William dies. William’s death imputes to the mother’s deformed love. After William’s death, she gave all her love to Paul. Her love not only leaded the failure love between Paul and Miriam but also caused the failure love between Paul and Clara. After Mrs. Morel’s death, Paul couldn’t live a normal life. He also couldn’t get out of the shadow of the mother. This for a son undoubted is a tragedy.16