【正文】 elp him in some other ，將永遠(yuǎn)為他祈禱。t buy 。s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and 。That the easiest way to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than i 。這五個(gè)球分別為工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心靈，而且你很努力地?cái)S著這五個(gè)球，不讓它們落地。一旦你失手落下，它們可能會(huì)少了一角，留下無(wú)法挽回的記號(hào)、刻痕、損壞甚至碎落一地。因?yàn)槲覀兌际仟?dú)一無(wú)二的，因?yàn)槲覀兠恳粋€(gè)人都很特別。你必須將他們視為你的生命一般好好地抓牢他們。Don’t give up when you still have something to is really over until the moment you stop 。Don’t be afraid to encounter is by taking chances that we learn how to be 。and the best way to keep love is to give it 。Don’t be afraid to is weightless, a treasure you can always carry 。Life is not a race, but a journey to besavoredeach step of the , 而是一步一個(gè)腳印的旅程。 in business psychology than the idea that high selfconfidence is key to career is time to debunk this fact, low selfconfidence is more likely to make you , extremely low confidence is not helpful: it inhibits performance by inducing fear, worry, and stress, which may drive people to give up sooner or justlowenough confidence can help you recalibrate your goals so they are more realistic and ，高度的自信是事業(yè)成功的關(guān)鍵，這是老生常談的問(wèn)題了。但是，適當(dāng)?shù)娜狈ψ孕艜?huì)幫助你重新確定自己的目標(biāo)，使其更加現(xiàn)實(shí)，更容易完成。雖然在所有的競(jìng)爭(zhēng)領(lǐng)域，例如，教育、商業(yè)、運(yùn)動(dòng)或者表演行業(yè)，相較他人，高度的自信會(huì)幫助他們?nèi)〉贸晒Γ浅晒κ?0%的表現(xiàn)加上90%的準(zhǔn)備。如果你對(duì)自己的目標(biāo)很認(rèn)真，在你對(duì)自己能力缺乏自信的情況下，你往往會(huì)更有動(dòng)力去努力工作。 is the most important benefit of low selfconfidence because it points to the fact that low selfconfidence can bring success, not just to individuals but also to organizations and 。（Ralph Waldo Emerson)：Most of the important things in the world have been acplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at ，不斷嘗試的人卻完成了。這是缺乏自信最大的好處了，因?yàn)樗嬖V了我們一個(gè)事實(shí)：缺乏自信會(huì)帶來(lái)成功，不僅僅是對(duì)個(gè)人而言，對(duì)于公司和社會(huì)也同樣適用。如果真的想得到你說(shuō)你想得到的東西，那么，你的不自信反而會(huì)讓你更加努力地工作去得到它——因?yàn)椴蛔孕艜?huì)讓你意識(shí)到你渴望的目標(biāo)和你現(xiàn)在的狀態(tài)之間的差距。沒(méi)錯(cuò)，成功是治愈安全感匱乏的一劑良藥。下面就是支持這一論點(diǎn)的三個(gè)主要的原因： selfconfidence makes you pay attention to negative feedback and be selfcritical:Most people get trapped in their optimistic biases, so they tend to listen to positive feedback and ignore negative this may help them e across as confidence to others, in any area of petence(., education, business, sports or performing arts)achievement is 10% performance and 90% , the more aware you are of your soft spots and weaknesses, the better prepared you will , success is the best medicine for your ，進(jìn)行自我批評(píng)。事實(shí)上，缺乏自信似乎更容易讓你取得成功。今天是份禮物：那就是我們稱(chēng)之為“現(xiàn)在”的原因。Don’t use time or words can be 。Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you are ，那匆忙讓你忘了曾經(jīng)到過(guò)哪里，也讓你忘了你要去哪里。Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to quickest way to receive love is to give it。Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than is thisfragilethread that binds us to each 。Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your 。只有你才知道什么最適合你。你必須了解這個(gè)道理，并且為平衡你的生命而努力。如果你不幸失手落下它，它還是會(huì)彈回來(lái)。That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your 。t do it all in one makes me think i can? 上帝并非一天完成所有的事，我又怎么么可能呢？ That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt ，只會(huì)繼續(xù)受到此人對(duì)你的傷害。s those small daily happenings that make life so ，讓我們的生活如此多姿。That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to ，一個(gè)人想要的只是一只可握的手和一顆感知的心。That you should never say no to a gift from a 。That when you39。我跳上單車(chē),穿梭在家鄉(xiāng)的大小街道上,一切在夕陽(yáng)的余暉中被拉長(zhǎng)了影子,路上車(chē)少人稀。但問(wèn)題是:我想凝視夕陽(yáng)。he had to be doing something as he looked at it—writing, reading, playing could say he was a success: He was a published author, an acplished musician, fluent in German and the American Sign ’s an impressive list, but here’s the thing: I want to gaze at don’t want to meet a deadline during them or be writing a column at the same time, or glance at them over the top of a raises the question: If I leave work at five o’ clock to watch the sunset, what are the consequences? Do I risk not reaching the top of my profession? Maybe, because honestly, knocking off after eight hours probably won’t earn me the corner office or the lucrative hey, leaving work at five o’ clock means I eat dinner with my get to hop on my bike and pedal through the streets of my hometown as the shadows lengthen and the traffic I get to take in a lot of ’s got to be worth ,他就是沒(méi)法凝視夕陽(yáng)。只在工作時(shí)間內(nèi)工作的想法于我并非易事,畢竟,有其父必有其女。It’s been 10 years since I saw my father e home that night and since then, I’ve thought a lot about ’ve decided something: I will never crawl up the much as I love my job as a newspaper reporter, I will never work myself into the ground, literally or idea of leaving work at work didn’t e easily to all, I am my father’s college, I wasn’t going to keg parties in a frat basement。那天,他已經(jīng)病得很厲害,疲憊不堪。那看起來(lái)就跟懷表、鞋油這類(lèi)東西一樣,簡(jiǎn)直是過(guò)時(shí)而怪異。subtle longing is deep。彼此之間不需要天天在一起，偶爾一句：你好嗎？思念就像發(fā)芽一樣蔓延開(kāi)來(lái)……I like the subtle longing for a friend, when I sink deeply in a couch, mind wandering in memories of the past...我喜歡淡淡地思念一個(gè)人,靜靜地將自己包圍在沙發(fā)之中，任思緒在回憶里飄蕩……Love should also be subtle, without enslaving the ones fallen into her a bit less nor a bit more...愛(ài)也要淡淡的。in autumn, it caresses my face。但是從那一刻起，我明白了，愛(ài)情就像是 生活中被子里的一根線。跟你說(shuō)吧，我喜歡與你媽媽一塊散步的感覺(jué)。這一切形成了一幅世間最美好的畫(huà)面。父親從未 如此溫和過(guò)。母親在醫(yī)院里待了一個(gè)月。你不可能隨時(shí)隨地看到它，但 是它卻實(shí)實(shí)在在地存在著。不過(guò)，后來(lái)我聽(tīng)見(jiàn)母親說(shuō)：“Susan,‖ she said thoughtfully, ―Look at this it appears, but most of itdisappears in the thread really makes the quilt strong and life is a quilt, then love should be a can hardly be seen anywhere or anytime, but it’s really is inside.‖“蘇珊，看看這些線。她沒(méi)有立即作答。One day, my mother was sewing a silently sat down beside her and looked at ，母親正在縫被子，我靜靜地坐在她旁邊看著她。他們認(rèn)為”我愛(ài)你”太奢侈，很難說(shuō)出口。我們老愛(ài)說(shuō)：長(zhǎng)大再說(shuō)，有錢(qián)再說(shuō)，老了再說(shuō)……可是到了那時(shí)候，卻什么都不必說(shuō)了。Actually, I also missed something precious reason why we would have missed those precious things is less than simple: we had thought that we could still own them ，我也錯(cuò)過(guò)一些事。I have a very busy friend who had totally changed after knowing that hiswife came down with acute cooked by himself for the family and took a walk with his wife every , his wife still did not manage to co