【正文】 the western parents will respect the Xu Datong’s action to educate his son is seen as violence even traditional Chinese notion is that parents give birth to their child and they have the right to educate them well, other people are with no right to , parents are just legal guardian to their children in America, and they have no right to scold their kids and to say nothing of fight their , the Chinese notion of education is rather different from the western notion of education,Legally, America is a legal system country, law exists in the every corner and every dispute can be solved by the way of emphasize on the truth and , Xu Datong was announcedto leave his son, according to law, the court’s adjudication is many Chinese people are unable to accept it, which we can see the difference between China and have to acknowledge that American people emphasize personal rights。they use law and social institutions to limit people’s action, especially to the protection of think everyone is equal and has their own can learn something good from American conclusion, crosscultural munication may have some order to reach the agreement, we should learn to respect other different cultural customs in the process of cultural need to have tolerant attitude, and eliminate national prejudice and adhere to the principle of equal culture.第三篇：刮痧英文觀后感Consideration about Gua ShaThe movie Gua Sha(The Treatment)is typical for showing explicitly the differences of culture and the way of thinking between countries as well as modern and tells the story about Xu Datong, a video games designer in his father visits from China, he performs Gua Sha(a Chinese traditional treatment)on his grandson, which leaves bright red marks on the skin and causes a lawsuit of child the court, Datong loses his mind so that finally he loses custody of his Sha is a treatment in traditional oriental medicine in which a wooden board repeatedly slides across the patient39。s acupuncture acupressure massage works in similar principles like that of acupuncture acupressure method would inevitably leave bruise on the , the treatment of Gua Sha means to get rid of blocks and obstacles in the body and to make one healthy and the movie, it also means to break the differences of culture and the way to thinking between China and the United from the culture distinctions, the way of thinking is also different between the two pays more attention to logical thinking and the respect for an individual person, even if it’s just a kid and they always seem cold and indifferent to us in China, we value much the collectivism, which means we cherish and care our parents, our children, our families as well as others and even the movie, there are cultural conflicts and cultural convergence going is a name which means the same and harmony, and Datong is the father who is trying to integrate his Chinese cultural beliefs into his daily American conversations of this film are also a bination of Chinese and English, just like the world, a bination of Chinese culture and American culture, holding true things to the integration of both movie also shows the eternal theme of love between parents and children, couples, friends, and even strangers which we can see clearly from the last part of the movie when Datong succeeded in climbing to his home on the ninth floor, people who are watching as well as the policemen all applause and congratulate is love which is eternal in the universal even if there are impresses me the most is the last scene, when on Christmas day，Datong, who misses his son so much, pretends to be Santa Claus climbing along the water pipe to his house on the ninth ’m almost in tears when I see their family