【正文】 的美好外表所吸引，并對我們的自信印象深刻。另一個重要步驟，就是培養(yǎng)對別人的體貼。永遠以他人為重，并把別人的利益放在自己的利益之前。當(dāng)個好聽眾也是很重要的。如此一來，別人才能很自在地對我們吐露心事。然而，不管我們做什么事，絕對不要說閑言閑語。最重要的是，要做自己，不要當(dāng)虛偽的人。只有對人真誠又尊重時，才能贏得他人的尊敬。如果我們能做到以上幾點，我相信受人歡迎是指日可待的事。learn how to say no weve all been taught that we should help is the right thing to do and will make us popular with may even win us favors in , we must be cant say yes to every we did, we would fail or go crazy for we simply dont have the time to this case, we must know how to say no 我們都被教導(dǎo)說，我們應(yīng)該要幫助別人。這是應(yīng)該做的事，而且這樣做會使我們受人歡迎。它甚至?xí)槲覀冓A得一些回報。但是，我們必須要實際一點。我們不能答應(yīng)每一個要求。如果我們這么做，我們就一定會失敗或發(fā)瘋。有時候我們確實沒有時間去幫忙。既然如此，我們就必須知道如何有禮貌地說不。當(dāng)我們需要說不的時候，有個辦法我們可以試試。首先，我們應(yīng)該要說實話。假如我們真的辦不到某件事，我們就應(yīng)該說不。第二，我們應(yīng)該記得要客氣地拒絕對方的要求。我們必須清楚地表達，但態(tài)度也必須真誠并且表示同情。一個真正的朋友會諒解的。最后，我們不必為了說不而覺得有罪惡感。有時候拒絕別人才是我們應(yīng)該做的事。它可以替我們自己和別人，都省下許多麻煩?？偠灾?，我們無法一直取悅每個人。拒絕請求是人生的一部分。how to sell yourself by following the advice above, you are bound to make a good impression on potential you will be able to choose the best opportunity for you and take that first step towards 在這個競爭激烈的社會中，為了得到你想要的工作，知道如何自我推銷是很重要的。也就是說，你必須能夠銷售你最好的特點，并把你最好的一面呈現(xiàn)出來。畢竟，第一印象定江山。要在面試時表現(xiàn)出好的一面，你可以做幾件事情。首先，要看起來像個贏家。穿著保守而體面，會使你看起來像是就要成功了。第二，要能清楚地表達。仔細地考慮每個問題，并據(jù)實回答。記得要和對方有目光接觸，并保持良好的姿勢。你必須看起來專注而自在。第三，態(tài)度要積極而有自信。對你的能力有信心，并對你的未來感到樂觀是很重要的。最后，要充分準(zhǔn)備。遞上一份專業(yè)的簡歷，并準(zhǔn)備好詳細解釋每件事。遵照以上的建議，你就一定會給可能成為你老板的那些人，留下好的印象。然后你就可以選擇對你而言最好的機會。并踏出邁向成功的第一步。responsibility is a badge of honour for youth(96年“21世紀(jì)杯全國大學(xué)生英語演講比賽”二等獎獲得者，北京外國語大學(xué)徐義成)im grateful that ive been given this opportunity, at such a historic moment, to stand here as a spokesman of my generation and to take a serious look back at the past 15 years, a crucial period for every one of us and for this nation as it is only within my power to tell about my personal experience, and only a tiny fragment of it at that, it still represents, i believe, the root of a spirit which has been essential to me and to all the people bred by the past 15 my elementary years, there was a little girl in the class who worked very hard but somehow could never do satisfactorily in her teacher asked me to help her, and it was obvious that she expected a lot from as a young boy, restless, thoughtless, i always tried to evade her so as to get more time to enjoy day before the final exam, she came up to me and said, could you please explain this to me? i want very much to do better this started explaining, and finished in a not to notice her still confused eyes, i ran off surprisingly, she again did very badly in the two months later, at the beginning of the new semester, word came of her death of blood one ever knew about the little task i failed to fulfill, but i couldnt forgive simply couldnt forget her eyes, which seem to be asking, why didnt you do a little more to help me, when it was so easy for you? why didnt you understand a little better the trust placed in you, so that i would not have to leave this world in such pain and regret? i was about eight or nine years old at that time, but in a way it was the very starting point of my life, for i began to understand the word responsibility and to learn to always do my duties faithfully and devotedly, for the implications of that sacred word has dawned on me: the mutual need and trust of people, the cooperation and interreliance which are the very foundation of human in my life, i continued to experience many never again did i feel that regret which struck me at the death of the girl, for it makes my heart satisfied to think that i have always done everything in my power to fulfill my responsibilities as best i like individuality and creativity are getting more emphasis and more people are rewarded for their hard work and is the era in which this generation ,grows and is the era in which this generation will take over the nation from our fathers and learn to run in the meantime, many problems still learn that crimes take place in broad daylight with crowds of people looking on and not hear that there are still about 1 million children in this country who cant even afford to go to elementary schools while enormous sums of money are being squandered away on dinner parties and luxury buy shoddy medicines, or merely worthless junk in the name of medicines, that aggravate, rather than alleviate our diseases since money, many people believe, is the most important thing in the world that must be made, even at the expense of morality and an era, furthermore, demands, that we are a generation with a clear perception of our historical responsibility and an aggressive will to take action and solve the has long been preparing these qualities in this generation and it is now calling us forward to give testimony to our patriotism and heroism towards this nation and all here now, i think of the past 15 years of my life as an ordinary ill be an ordinary man for the rest of my this doesnt discourage me any, for i know that with my sense of responsibility and devoted efforts to always strive, for the best, its going to be a meaningful and worthwhile life that i will be cant ever forget that little girl in my class who couldnt had the same opportunities as any of us here to enjoy a wonderful life today and a hopeful world is the sacred responsibility of this generation to face up to the challenges of the new century and to devote our sweat and blood, our wisdom and passion, to the historic cause of making this nation a greater and happier land for every one of are not going to evade that are going to let people people, far and near, will hear of will be brought to their backbones and tears to their eyes when our stories are told and retold, so let us go forth, my fellow members of this luckily chosen generation, and meet the new century in victory and ——青年人榮譽的標(biāo)志站在臺上面對大家，我心情十分激動。好像是在參加一次歷史性的長征。我們今天面對的遠不只一場競賽或角逐。這是才華出眾，生氣勃勃的中國青年的一次聚會。我們是青年一代的代表。為迎接新世紀(jì)的到來，我們正在從各方面作好準(zhǔn)備。在這一歷史時刻，能有機會代表同齡人在此認真地回顧于國于己都至關(guān)重要的過去的15年，我感激萬分。盡管只能談?wù)剛€人經(jīng)歷，而且只涉及其中一個小小的片段，但我相信，它仍然折射出對我和在過去15年間一同成長起來的青年人都不可缺少的一種思想基礎(chǔ)。我上小學(xué)時，班上有位小姑娘，學(xué)習(xí)非?？炭喽煽儏s不盡人意。老