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eges. The family is the most important place for the enlightenment education of children, it plays an important role in the future for good habit forming. The two countries have significant differences in family education, such as the relationship in the family, America parents pay more attention to equality with the children together。 In the concepts, most parents in China hope their children can rise head and shoulders above others, but beautiful country attach more importance to improve children39。s ability to adapt to survive。 The way of education, China parents like an alternative, and America parents prefer to let the children handson.(Zeng Zhilan,1). Education Concepts are Different. In China, the parents are more concerned about their children’s future .they think the most important is that their children can find a good job and have a happy life. So the parents do almost everything to make their children live wonderfully. They pay more attention to their children’s life and intelligence rather than children’s independence and ability. However, American parents focus on children’s experience and ability. There is am example A Chinese father saw his son, Denis, fighting with the son of his foreign boss. He let Denis to apologize to the boss39。s son. But his son refused .He gave his son a slap in the face. He did it out of respect to his boss, meaning that because of you, I will punish my son. But this scene made his boss surprised and puzzled. Why a father to say that? A significant difference between the two countries in this is the family education existing. The traditional Chinese education emphasized benevolence and obedience, and America family is focused on justice and freedom. Chinese parents usually like shape the child, wanting their children to develop according to their own will. They often use their reason to interfere with children39。s natural development, thus largely deprive their children of the right to freedom of choice. American family is more emphasis on autonomy of the children, let ting the children learn in the munity under the conditions allowed to make their own decisions, solving their own problems encountered by independent. Goal is Different. Family education purpose restricting the direction of family education, to determine the overall effect, so the purpose of family education is the core of family education, is to determine the root cause of the family education differences between China and the United States. The purpose of family education is through the family education to train the educatees into what kind of person. Determine if purpose, education content, methods, according to the choice. So what is the purpose of American and Chinese family education, or what