【正文】 ne a little less brightly if we fail at ’s what matters ，這就是如果我們在家庭上失敗了，所有個人的成功都少了一點明亮的光澤。當(dāng)我回憶我的一生。如果我們可以盡我們的全力來安慰和鼓勵我們的孩子，如果我們可以付出我們無條件的愛幫助他們成為應(yīng)該成為的人，那么我們就成功了。本周日是父親節(jié)，所以我想花點時間談?wù)勎覀兒芏嗳艘簧钪匾囊豁椆ぷ鳌?dāng)?shù)?。但是不管我們多么先進(jìn)，在孩子的一生中，愛和支持，特別是父母的存在，是最重要的，無可替代的。i never really knew my own was raised by a single mom and two wonderful grandparents who made incredible sacrifices for there are single parents like by mom all across the country who do a heroic job raising terrific i still wish i had a dad who was not only around, but involved。responsibility and delayed gratification – all the things that give a child the foundation to envision a brighter future for 。全國有很多單親父、母承擔(dān)撫養(yǎng)可憐的孩子們的偉大工作。that’ s why i try every day to be for michelle and my girls what my father was not for my mother and i’ve met plenty of other people – dads and uncles and men without a family connection –who are trying to break the cycle and give more of our young people a strong male role 。being a good parent – whether you’re gay or straight。它要求你永遠(yuǎn)的操心，經(jīng)常的犧牲，不至于把孩子寵壞的耐心。每當(dāng)這一天，我都冥思苦想如何做我妻子更好的丈夫和我的孩子們的更好的父親。我們應(yīng)該改革我們的兒童撫養(yǎng)法讓更多的男人努力融入他們的孩子們的生活。because if there’s one thing i’ve learned along the way, it’s that all our personal successes shine a little less brightly if we fail at ’s what matters i look back on my life, i won’t be thinking about any particular legislation i passed or policy i ’ll be thinking about michelle, and the journey we’ve been on ’ll be thinking about sasha’s dance recitals and malia’s tennis matches –about the conversations we’ve had and the quiet moments we’ve ’ll be thinking about whether i did right by them, and whether they knew, every day, just how much they were ，那就是如果家庭不幸，我們所有人的成功都如同白璧微瑕。當(dāng)我回顧我的一生，我不會想到我通過的任何法案或我提倡的政策。我想到的是薩沙的個人舞蹈演出和瑪利亞的網(wǎng)球比賽—想到我們的交流和我們共享的靜謐時光。kids。then we will have 。happy father’s day to all the dads out there, and have a great ，周末愉快。我覺得做好一個父親的角色有時候最困難，但也最有意義。兩歲時父親離開了我們。盡管如此，我仍然覺得父愛缺失。that’s why i’ve tried pretty hard to be a good dad for my own haven’t always succeeded, of course – in the past, my job has kept me away from home more than often i would like to, and the burden of raising two young girls sometimes would fall too heavily on ，當(dāng)有了自己的孩子后，我便加倍努力，讓自己成為一個好爸爸。過去，因為工作的關(guān)系，我不得不經(jīng)常出差，這實在是情非得已。but between my own experiences growing up, and my ongoing efforts to be the best father i can be, i’ve learned a couple of things about what our children need most from their ，讓我懂得了很多東西。first and foremost, they need our more important than the quantity of hours we spend with them is the quality of those it’s just asking about their day, or taking a walk together, but the smallest moments can have the biggest ，孩子們需要我們花時間陪伴。也許只是日常生活中的簡短問候，或是一起散步聊天，但這些最短暫的時光卻可以對他們產(chǎn)生最大的影響。盡管瑪莉亞和薩莎現(xiàn)在生活在白宮，但我和米歇爾還是要確保他們完成家庭作業(yè)，做好日常雜務(wù)，按時遛狗。when life is easy and when life is ，孩子們需要我們付出無條件的愛。and life is tough for a lot of americans and more kids grow up without a father miss a father who’s away serving his country in even for those dads who are present in their children’s lives, the recession has taken a harsh you’re out of a job or struggling to pay the bills, doing whatever it takes to keep the kids healthy, happy and safe can understandably take precedence over everything ，很多美國人的生活非常艱難。有些父親身穿軍裝，為國效力，孩子們便不得不在家苦苦等候。如果你失業(yè)了，或是入不敷出，也要盡全力讓孩子們過上健康、快樂，安全的生活，這顯然是最重要的事情。我們鼓勵社會和宗教團(tuán)體關(guān)注父親的角色，并與企業(yè)合作為父親們提供一些機(jī)會，讓他們與孩子們一起度過在保齡球館或棒球場的時光，或與隨軍神父一起幫助父親們建立與孩子們的聯(lián)系。如果您想了解更多我們正在參與的工作。我們都能夠鼓勵孩子們關(guān)掉游戲、撿起書本。我們都能教育孩子們區(qū)分對錯，并且以自己為榜樣，讓他們看到，我們希望別人怎樣對待自己，就應(yīng)該怎樣對待別人，這非常重要。他們知道生活并不總是那么完美，他們懂得有時候道路會比較坎坷，即便是偉大的父母也不一定每件事都做的對。so recently, i took on a second job: assistant coach for sasha’s basketball sundays, we’d get the team together to practice, and a couple of times, i’d help coach the it was great fun – even if sasha rolled her eyes occasionally when her dad voiced his displeasure with the ，最近我接受了第二份工作，成為薩莎她們籃球隊的助理教練。有幾次我還幫助教練指導(dǎo)她們的比賽。experiences like these as the ones that helped define her as a person – and as a parent ，不斷學(xué)習(xí)、取得進(jìn)步并收獲自信，我感到非常驕傲。in the end, that’s what being a parent is all about – those precious moments with our children that fill us with pride and excitement for their future。the opportunities to just be there and show them that we love ，這些都是為人父母的經(jīng)歷。that’s something worth remembering this father’s day, and every 。在家里陪伴我的女兒是一件樂事，在教堂與各位共度也是我的榮幸。大雨過后，洪水泛濫，狂風(fēng)怒號，擊打屋舍，但房屋不倒，是因為其建立在堅石之上。在此基礎(chǔ)上，我們應(yīng)該承認(rèn)父親的重要并尊敬他們。他們是導(dǎo)師，是行為的楷模。but if we are honest with ourselves, well admit that what too many fathers also are is missingits the courage to raise 。我們需要他們認(rèn)識到：你之所以是個男人，不因為你有生育能力，而是你有撫養(yǎng)以個孩子的勇氣。the mothers who drop them off at school, go to work, pick up them up in the afternoon, work another shift, get dinner, make lunches, pay the bills, fix the house, and all the other things it takes both parents to many of these women are doing a heroic job, but they need need another children need another what keeps their foundation what keeps the foundation of our country ；母親們將孩子送到學(xué)校，然后去工作，下午又將孩子從學(xué)校接回，開始另一份工作，做晚餐，做中餐，付學(xué)費，修理房子，而這一切都應(yīng)由父母兩人共同承擔(dān)。她們需要另一對父母。這使她們的基礎(chǔ)變得強大，這使整個國家的基礎(chǔ)變得強大。to give us the things that other kids had。wishing that i could be home for my girls and my wife more than i am right say this knowing all of these things because even as we are imperfect, even as we face difficult circumstances, there are still certain lessons we must strive to live and learn as fathersas fathers and parentsthe ability to stand in somebody elses shoes。if theyre taking our responsibilities seriously to be there for their children, and set high expectations for them, and instill in them a sense of excellence and empathy, then our government should meet them ，到華盛頓去也是一種責(zé)任，因為，如果父親們對孩子們履行著他們的責(zé)任，對孩子們給予期望，灌輸孩子們優(yōu)秀的品行、關(guān)心，我們的政府就應(yīng)該在其中幫助他們。本周日是父親節(jié)，所以我想花點時間談?wù)勎覀兒芏嗳艘簧钪匾囊豁椆ぷ鳌?dāng)?shù)５遣还芪覀兌嗝聪冗M(jìn)，在孩子的一生中，愛和支持，特別是父母的存在，是最重要的，無可替代的。I never really knew my own was raised by a single mom and two wonderful grandparents who made incredible sacrifices for there are single parents all across the country who do a heroic job raising terrific I still wish I had a dad who was not only around, but invo