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s bring you down to their level. 不要讓別人拉低了自己的水準(zhǔn)?!睂捤∈菃栴}的答案——放手過去、找到內(nèi)心的平靜、最后解放自己!而且,你要記住寬恕并不只是對別人,同時也是對你自己的。 Don t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time. 如果人心中有恨,最終給自己帶來的傷害要遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)多出別人所帶給自己的傷害。你要讓別人都看到今天的你要比昨天的你更強,而且明天的你會變得更強。但是,當(dāng)你回頭審視這些挫折時,你會發(fā)現(xiàn)它們最后會讓你變得更出色。 Life s curveballs are thrown for a reason –to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at you in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be. 生命中的挫折都是有其存在的意義,它讓你重新步入人生的正軌。 Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What s something I have that everyone wants?” 嫉妒其實就是在細(xì)數(shù)別人的幸福卻忽視了自己的幸福。每天要專心于超越自己,成功只是一場自己跟自己的戰(zhàn)役。 15. Stop trying to pete against everyone else. 不要總是和別人競爭。有人會考驗?zāi)?,有人會利用你,有人引?dǎo)你。 14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. 不要因為之前戀情的失敗而拒絕新的感情。如果緣分到了,一切都會到來的——在合適的時間跟合適的人。有個錯誤的伴侶還不如單身呢。 13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. 不要因為某個錯誤的原因開始一段感情。 Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our fort zones, which means we won’t feel totally fortable at first. 當(dāng)機會來了,沒有人會覺得自己做好了100%的準(zhǔn)備。不邁出第一步,你就無法走出第二步,生活就是這樣的。你無法改變你不能面對的事。 Don t think too much or you’ll create a problem that wasn t even there in the first place. uate situations and take decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! You can t make it to second base with your foot on first. 別想太多,不然你會制造出很多不必要的麻煩。你要先建立自己的幸福才能和別人分享這份幸福。 10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. 不要幻想通過其他人來獲得幸福。 Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the t