【正文】 Still, over the past couple years, I’ve met with a lot of young people who don’t have a father figure while there’s nothing that can replace a parent, any of us can do our part to be a mentor, a sounding board, a role model for a kid who needs this year, I launched an initiative called My Brother’s Keeper – an allhandsondeck effort to help more of our young men reach their full if you want to be a mentor to a young man in your munity, you can find out how at ，在過(guò)去的幾年里，我遇到很多沒(méi)有父親的年輕人。風(fēng)吹雨打時(shí)，讓 風(fēng)雨吹打房屋吧，我們堅(jiān)信我們的主會(huì)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)我們，看著我們，保護(hù)著我們，帶領(lǐng)著祂的孩子穿過(guò)暴風(fēng)雨的極度黑暗而走向更美好未來(lái)的光明。人將仍會(huì)有掙扎與痛苦的日子。要靠我們告訴我們的男孩，收音機(jī)里的歌曲有美化暴力的可能，但在我家里我們的生 活是為了美化成就、美化自尊、美化辛勤的勞動(dòng)。我心里明白這一切，因?yàn)榭v然我們?nèi)秉c(diǎn)多多，縱然我們困難重重，有某些教訓(xùn)是我們?yōu)楦傅膽?yīng)該盡可能地去親歷和總結(jié)的 ——不管我們是黑人或白人；富人或窮人；來(lái)自―南邊‖區(qū)（芝加哥南部較窮的住宅區(qū)）或來(lái)自富裕的郊區(qū)。她們需要另一個(gè)家長(zhǎng)。我們須要認(rèn) 識(shí)到并予以肯定的是，每位父親對(duì)這個(gè)基礎(chǔ)能起多么關(guān)鍵的作用。m talking about hope as that spirit inside us that insists, despite all evidence to the contrary, that something better is waiting for us if we39。or when you are distant。ll go to an eighthgrade graduation and there39。to give us the things that other kids had。這就是今天父親節(jié)這個(gè)日子我為大家所作的祈禱，也是我對(duì)國(guó)家的未來(lái)所抱的希望。這就是我們打好家庭基石的方法。s nothing more precious in life than the time we spend with our 39。t the ability to have a child – it39?！暗F(xiàn)在，我的生活圍繞著我的兩個(gè)小女兒。這就是為什么我們必須以身作則來(lái)把同感和關(guān)愛(ài)這些人生價(jià)值傳給我們的孩子?！澳阒绬幔袝r(shí)候我去參加八年級(jí)（初中）畢業(yè)典禮，那里張燈結(jié)彩、花團(tuán)錦簇、學(xué)生一個(gè)個(gè)禮服盛裝。所以在這一點(diǎn)上我個(gè)人的故事與他們是不同的。??“但我們也需要家庭來(lái)?yè)嵊覀兊淖优?。他們置他們的?zé)任于不顧，表現(xiàn)得像小男孩而不是男子漢?！拔抑郎磉厸](méi)有一個(gè)父親的苦處，當(dāng)然我的處境沒(méi)有像今天許多年輕人的處境那么不幸。結(jié)了婚而又能跟孩子住在一起是再好不過(guò)了，但卻不能只坐在家里而整個(gè)周末看電視的“體育中心”節(jié)目?！暗诙€(gè)教訓(xùn)是，我們?yōu)楦杆鶓?yīng)做的是傳給我們孩子對(duì)人應(yīng)有同感empathy的人生價(jià)值。“我講的希望不是空談的希望——那種類(lèi)似盲目的樂(lè)觀主義或?qū)?wèn)題不加考慮的盲干。謝謝大家。s why, earlier this week, we brought working dads from across America to the White House to talk about the challenges they in a few weeks, I39。父親既是成功的榜樣，又是不斷推動(dòng)我們走向成功的人。不是同情，而是感同身受——能設(shè)身處地地為人著想，能從別人的角度看世界。the mothers who drop them off at school, go to work, pick up them up in the afternoon, work another shift, get dinner, make lunches, pay the bills, fix the house, and all the other things it takes both parents to many of these women are doing a heroic job, but they need need another children need another 39。s even better if you have a college 39。s up to us to set these high that means meeting those expectations means setting examples of excellence in our own lives.[/color][color=ff6600]The second thing we need to do as fathers is pass along the va[/color][color=ff6600]lue of empathy to our sympathy, but empathy – the ability to stand in somebody else39。re taking our responsibilities seriously to be there for their children, and set high expectations for them, and instill in them a sense of excellence and empathy, then our government should meet them halfway.[/color][color=ff6600]We should be making it easier for fathers who make responsible choices and harder for those who avoid should get rid of the financial penalties we impose on married couples right now, and start making sure that every dime of child support goes directly to helping children instead of some should reward fathers who pay that child support with job training and job opportunities and a larger Earned Ine Tax Credit that can help them pay the should expand programs where registered nurses visit expectant and new mothers and help them learn how to care for themselves before the baby is born and what to do after – programs that have helped increase father involvement, women39。ve done to its climate? [/color][color=ff6600]And what I39。由于父親的缺席，我們社會(huì)的基礎(chǔ)變得更加薄 弱。他們的生活中不容他們有犯錯(cuò)誤而改過(guò)自新的機(jī)會(huì)。我們明白為此所需的努力、學(xué)習(xí)和教育水平。所以，我們?cè)趯W(xué)校或在街上會(huì)看到這些同樣的行為表現(xiàn)是不足為奇的。我當(dāng)時(shí)開(kāi)始回答得有點(diǎn)結(jié)巴，然后我停下來(lái)，想了一會(huì)兒就說(shuō)道：[/color][color=gray]―我年輕的時(shí)候，我想到的生活就是關(guān)于我——我如何為自己在世界闖出一條路來(lái)，我如何取得成功，以及我如何獲得我所要的東西。如果你還沒(méi)有給爸爸準(zhǔn)備禮物，現(xiàn)在還來(lái)得及。還有，作為一個(gè)國(guó)家，我們有很多方式幫助父親們和母親們做出這個(gè)選擇。s Day, it must make him proud to know that the man now charged with keeping its foundation strong is his son and your new pastor, Reverend Byron Brazier.第五篇：美國(guó)總統(tǒng)奧巴馬2014年父親節(jié)講話(huà)美國(guó)總統(tǒng)奧巴馬2014年父親節(jié)講話(huà)Hi, is Father’s you haven’t got Dad a gift yet, there’s still the truth is, what we give our fathers can never match what our fathers give 。有一個(gè)年輕人舉起手，我猜想他想問(wèn)的是有關(guān)大學(xué)學(xué)費(fèi)、能源問(wèn)題或者也許有關(guān)伊拉克戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)。[/color][color=gray]―但我們年輕的男孩女孩都會(huì)觀察到這一切。[/color] [color=gray]―我們明白學(xué)校教育是孩子未來(lái)的關(guān)鍵。雖然我們沒(méi)有很多錢(qián)，但獎(jiǎng) 學(xué)金讓我有機(jī)會(huì)上我們國(guó)家一些最好的學(xué)校。統(tǒng)計(jì)資料告訴我們：生活里沒(méi)有父親的孩子比較容易落入貧困或犯罪的可能性高出五倍；他們比較容易棄學(xué)的可能性高出九倍；比較容易關(guān)進(jìn)監(jiān)獄的可能性高 出二十倍。t have as much opportunity as boys do? Are they living in a country where we are hated around the world because we don39。s a responsibility that also extends to if fathers are doing their part。t ever let images on TV tell you what you are worth, because I expect you to dream without limit and reach for those 39。s great if you have a job。t have , we need more money for our schools, and more outstanding teachers in the classroom, and more afterschool programs for our , we need more jobs and more job training and more opportunity in our munities.[/color][color=ff6600]But we also need families to raise our need fathers to realize that responsibility does not end at need them to realize that what makes you a man is not the ability to have a child – it39。The second thing we need to do as fathers is pass along the value of empathy to our sympathy, but empathy——the ability to stand in somebody else’s shoes。我們必須認(rèn)識(shí)并且肯定每一位父親在這個(gè)基石中起到的關(guān)鍵作用。s responsibility for being a great parent or mentor is a choice that we, as individuals, have to governmentprogram can ever take the place of a parent39。這就是今天父親節(jié)我為我們大家作的祈禱，也是我對(duì)我們國(guó)家將來(lái)所抱有的希望。風(fēng)仍會(huì)在吹，雨仍會(huì)在打。讓他們知道我們對(duì)他們抱有這些期望就全靠我們?！暗谝粋€(gè)教訓(xùn)是給我們的子女做出一個(gè)絕佳的榜樣，因?yàn)槿绻覀儗?duì)他們抱有很高的期望，我們對(duì)自己也應(yīng)該抱有同樣高的期望。她們的孩子也需要另一個(gè)家長(zhǎng)。父親是教師和教練，他們是導(dǎo)師和生活角色的模范，是成功的榜樣，亦是老推動(dòng)我們走向成功的人。我們需要他們認(rèn)識(shí)到，不是有生孩子的能力，而是有撫養(yǎng)孩子的勇氣才配稱(chēng)男子漢。我也知道因此我所要付出的艱辛。要想真正參與競(jìng)爭(zhēng)，他們必須高中畢業(yè)，然后必須大學(xué)畢業(yè)，也許還得拿一張研究生文憑呢。這就是我們?yōu)楦傅乃鶓?yīng)負(fù)起的責(zé)任。她們應(yīng)該生活在一個(gè)只有一小撥人富有而一大撥人為了生存而必須每天掙扎的國(guó)家嗎？她們應(yīng)該生活在一個(gè)依舊有種族歧視的國(guó)家嗎？生活在一個(gè)由于她們是女孩而不能享有與男孩同樣多機(jī)會(huì)的國(guó)家嗎？她們應(yīng)該生活在一個(gè)由于我們不能與其他國(guó)家有效地合作而被世人所討厭的國(guó)家嗎？她們應(yīng)該生活在一個(gè)由于我們對(duì)氣候所造成的不良影響而出現(xiàn)嚴(yán)重危機(jī)的世界嗎？“我所深刻認(rèn)識(shí)到的是，你如果不愿意為我們的孩子——所有我們的孩子，作出一丁點(diǎn)貢獻(xiàn)而留下一個(gè)更美好世界的話(huà)，生活就沒(méi)有多大價(jià)值。ve met with a lot of young people who don39。s make sure every dad who works hard and takesresponsibility has the chance to know that feeling, not just on one S