【正文】 is, unfortunately, far less mon, but it is equally wele. How fortunate are the adults who can react to potentially(潛在地 ) frustrating(使人沮喪的 ) situations a collapsed(倒塌 的 ) tent(帳篷 ), a split(劈開 ) seam(縫 ) in a pair of pants(褲子 ), a surprise guest and see the sheer(全然的 ) absurdity(荒謬 ) of their attempts to maintain absolute control. Laughter expresses pleasure, 3 eases(緩和 ) tension, and lifts the spirit,. It is a gift we should all share more often. Facial(臉的 )l expression We have two different faces we can show the world. We can smile, or we can frown(皺眉 ). The face we choose to put on each day affects us a lot. Smiling is, of course, the better way to live. Smiling keeps us healthy. When we frown, we tighten(繃緊 ) up our faces and our bodies bee tense(繃緊的 ,緊張的 ). A smiling face is a relaxed face. Smiling makes us feel good, and it keeps our bodies functioning(運(yùn)行 ) better. Smiling also makes us look good. No one likes to look at a person who is frowning. Frowns are ugly(丑的 ). Such people make us want to turn and walk away. In addition, smiling is important for success in the business world and the social occasion. A smiling salesman will far outsell(在推銷上勝過(guò) ) a petitor who frowns. A smiling doctor will help his patients relax. A smiling lawyer will win the hearts of the jury(【律】陪審團(tuán) ). In conclusion, smiling is good for our lives in every way. It is something that everyone knows how to do. All it takes is a little effort. However, we do not have to feel happy to start smiling as the song says,”when you’re smiling, the whole world smiles with you.” Being shy Nearly everyone is shy in some ways. Shy people are overconcerned(擔(dān)心的 ) with their own appearance and actions. Worrisome(令人煩惱的 ) thoughts often swirl(打旋 ) in their minds: what kind of impression(印象 ) am I making? Do they like me? Do I sound stupid? If shyness is making you unfortable, it may be time for a few lessons in selfconfidence. Shy ness can be overe with determined(已下決心的 ) and patient efforts in building selfconfidence. You can build your confidence by following some suggestions. First, make decision not to hold back in conversation. What you have to say is just as important as what other people say. And don39。 songs and flowers’ fragrance(芬芳 ) is not for poets only, but for everyone. Meditation(沉思 ), too, is a great need. Meditation brings understanding of life39。s difficult to find a better partner after graduation。 instead of walking cheerfully(歡樂地 ) along the small paths, they were walking hurriedly with books under their arms. I never expected to live on the sixth floor, the highest story. Every day I had to drag(拖著 ) myself to my room after class, out of breath. And the 。 while losing it, you always feel disappointed and depressed. When the bond(結(jié)合力 ) of love broken, going on studying as usual or sinking(下沉 ) lament(悲痛 ) or even being crazy depend on us. We will not let romantic entanglement(糾纏 ) interfere(妨礙 ) with our studies. Love is a natural and quiet. During the process of love we will experience romantic love, frustrating love and critical(關(guān)鍵性的 ) love and real love. True love will overe our pain and dismay(氣餒 ), warm our heart, and spark(點(diǎn)燃 ) our spirit with delight(愉快 ) forces but not resistance(阻力 ). The information age “Knowledge is power.” This is more obviously true with the advent(到來(lái) ) of the information age. With the rapid development of science and technology, man’s knowledge is increasing very quickly. More and more books and scientific papers are published every year. It is said that the 7 total of man’s knowledge doubles every ten years. Besides, information spreads very quickly through television and puter works, and people in different countries can share their knowledge and information in a fantastic(驚人的 ) short period. Like population explosion, information explosion in our times. At the beginning of the industrial revolution, a country39。 That is, do to others, as you would have other do to you. Secondly, pay more attention to your health, which is the root of success, for a sound constitution(體質(zhì) ) enables you to succeed. Thirdly, worry and sorrow are of no use at all! In case you meet with some hard situation, you must try to overe 5 it without any hesitation(猶豫 . Willpower(意志力 ) is essential(不可缺的 ) to happiness. And the last, but not the least, adopt(采取 ) an optimistic attitude toward life, for the world is still in making and you can have a share in it . In this way, true happiness can be obtained. Happiness What is happiness? Different people have different ideas. Some people are rich。 1 Temptation(引誘 ) Temptation is a force usually attracting people to do immoral(不道德的 )things. No one escapes its spell. Many people have failed because they have bee slaves to temptation. Money is a typical tool of temptation. Some youngsters go astray(迷路 ) beyond cure because of various kinds of temptation. Shot by the bullets coated(上膠的 ) by “sugar”, some officials are unable to extricate (使擺脫 )from abusing their power for personal gain. We have learned that some people betrayed their country because they have been bribed(行賄 )by their enemies. Although their duty was to serve their country, the vast amount of money offered by the enemies made their palms itchy. They couldn’t resist the temptation to bee rich at once instead of struggling for a lifetime to earn only a little. At last they did some bad things, damaging the interests of their country. However, the character of a man is, as a rule, determined in his childhood. At that time, his parents, as well as his teachers, must inform them of the dagger of temptation. Laziness As everyone knows , laziness is a sin(罪孽 ). We have probably all had lectures pointing out that laziness is immoral and wasteful, and that lazy people will never amount to anything in life. But som