【正文】 請(qǐng)跟我結(jié)婚吧答應(yīng)吧，你即將得到的不僅僅是愛(ài)情、孩子和一個(gè)家?！?】“我一生的大部分時(shí)間都在與抑郁癥做斗爭(zhēng)，”她解釋說(shuō)。結(jié)了婚就意味著不能在酒吧一直喝到打烊，不會(huì)再吃拉面并稱之為一頓飯。如果家里有個(gè)人非常留意你的心情，注意你的情緒變化，那么抑郁癥和其它情感上的問(wèn)題也不太可能得不到及時(shí)確診。2008年1月發(fā)行的《健康心理》期刊上刊登的一項(xiàng)研究表明，當(dāng)已婚男人結(jié)束了特別繁忙的一天工作回到家時(shí)，他們擺脫了工作上接二連三的壓力荷爾蒙的攻擊，得到了放松；而職業(yè)女性中，只有那些稱自己的婚姻很幸福的人，才能像男人這樣消除壓力。凱考特格拉瑟說(shuō)，“她們經(jīng)常敦促男人去看醫(yī)生或讓他們吃得更健康。【11】數(shù)據(jù)還顯示，一個(gè)不幸的婚姻所造成的壓力能夠抵消一個(gè)幸福婚姻所帶來(lái)的大部分好處。如果突然把那個(gè)人奪走，你就變得眼淚汪汪、傷心悲痛、半宿不睡覺(jué)——我們把這種癥狀冷冰冰地稱之為失調(diào)。即使如此，我們也很難不贊成婚姻這種制度，它讓我們身邊有一個(gè)伴侶時(shí)時(shí)刻刻關(guān)心照顧我們。弗吉尼亞大學(xué)的神經(jīng)科學(xué)家詹姆斯首先，它會(huì)使人發(fā)胖。【9】人的身體為什么會(huì)有這種性別差異呢？“這是一個(gè)粗略的概括性結(jié)論，但對(duì)一個(gè)婚姻而言，女性確實(shí)是心理和生理健康的女管家。而結(jié)婚卻能以某種方式，通過(guò)減緩下丘腦活動(dòng)或者減少皮質(zhì)醇產(chǎn)生，讓身體避免這些困擾。其中一些原因很明顯?！?】但婚姻還有更多的意義。后來(lái)，去年五月，她嫁給了老朋友馬克。 this way – no more than all people who never pair off pair off (with sb) | pair sb off (with sb): to e together, especially in order to have a romantic relationship。toathewhodied喪失親友的aoneand不受影響的● You’lloftenaffectedthembyof remindingher SYN digwithhimdobreakfastribs ground over their unmarried peers.【9】Why this somatic somatic: adj. 身體的，肉體的（與 mental, spiritual, psychic相對(duì)）(P28) sexism? “This is a gross gross: adj. (grosser, grossest)1) being the total amount of sth before anything is taken away 總的；毛的● gross weight (= including the container or wrapping) 毛重● Investments showed a gross profit of 26%. ● gross ine (= before taxes, etc. are taken away)（稅前）總收益2) (formal or law) (of a crime, etc.) very obvious and unacceptable嚴(yán)重的● gross negligence/misconduct ● a gross violation of human rights 3) (informal) very unpleasant 令人不快的；令人惡心的；使人厭惡的 ● “He ate it with mustard.” “Oh, gross!” adv. in total, before anything is taken away 總共；全部● She earns 163。最少量；最低點(diǎn)；最低程度；毫無(wú)● Ilowestforrevolutiontollstheher. take its toll on sb/sth: to have a bad effect on sb/sth。soundetc.（戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)，災(zāi)難等造成的）毀壞，傷亡人數(shù)● Theroad/bridgeuseerect.with(formal)stherectittradeconsumer.risk or danger 安全設(shè)施，保護(hù)措施● Strongern. somethinghow which is equal to “don’t you dare drink! / Don’t drink! ” look when you reach for a cigarette or a third glass of wine. Depression and other emotional ills are less likely to go undiagnosed undiagnosed: adj. of a medical condition, a problem, etc.。dare!” “我要把這事告訴她.”“你敢！”● Don’tdoyouI’dflashedflasheswhenontomorning迅即答復(fù)；憤怒回答flashofan earliertoweddinghappenedflashesaround.otherconsistently這些結(jié)果與我們?cè)缧r(shí)候的研究完全吻合。sth與…一致的；相符的；符合的；不矛盾的● Theinperiod2) happeningconsistenthaving● For all his talk about extravagant houses, he is just an ordinary bankclark. its challenges – is like a healthinsurance policy. Marriage means no more drinking at bars until closing, no more eating ramen Ramen: a very popular Japanese noodle dish that originated in China. It’s served in a meat or fishbased broth肉湯, often flavored with soy or miso味增, and uses toppings澆頭 such as sliced pork, dried seaweed, kamaboko日本魚(yú)糕, green onions and even corn. 拉面 (P28) noodles and calling it a meal. Married people are less likely to smoke or drink heavily than people who are single, divorced or widowed. These sorts of lifestyle changes are known to lower rates of cardiovascular disease cardiovascular disease: 心血管疾病，冠心病, cancer and respiratory respiratory: adj. 呼吸的 (P28)● SARS: Severe Acute Respiratory Syndromes 嚴(yán)重急性呼吸綜合征\ 傳染性非典型肺炎 diseases. And while you might sometimes gripe gripe v. (informal, derog) to plain about sb/sth in an annoying way 訴苦，發(fā)牢騷 (P28)● He is always griping about the people at work. ● He keeps griping about having no money. n. (informal) a plaint about sth 怨言，牢騷● My only gripe about the hotel is the food. ● Bring all your gripes to the boss. that your spouse drives you nuts drive sb nuts: to make sb very angry, crazy, etc. or to make them do sth extreme使某人生氣，發(fā)瘋● My children always drive me nuts when they are tired and in a bad mood.● John’s girlfriend keeps driving him nuts because she always asks him questions when he gets home from the bar., just the opposite is true. Married people have lower rates of all types of mental illnesses and suicide. 【5】Researchers have found that all the health benefits of marriage are consistent consistent: adj. OPP2) pull away from sb/sth: if you pull away from someone/something that you have had close links with, you deliberately bee less close to them.● She tried to pull away from the man who was holding her.● Though her baby was unwell, she managed to pull away from him to attend an important meeting.pull out: (of vehicle or its driver) to move away from the side of the road 駛離路邊，駛出pull over: (of vehicle or its driver) to move to the side of the road in order to stop or let sth pass 駛向路邊，向路邊?？浚ɑ蜃屲嚕﹑ull sth down: to destroy a building pletely 拆毀，摧毀（建筑物） SYN demolishpull through (sth): 1) to get better after a serious illness, operation, etc.（大病，手術(shù)等候）復(fù)原（或康復(fù)）● The doctors think that she will put through.2) to succeed in doing sth very difficult 完成（十分困難的事）● I relied on my instincts to pull me through. pull together: to act, work, etc. together with other people in a