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oment, then he slammed the drawer shut and turned to me, dont ever save anything for a special occasion. every day you re alive is a special occasion. i remembered those words through the funeral and the days that followed when i helped him and my niece attend to all the sad chores that follow an unexpected death. i thought about them on the plane returning to california from the midwestern town where my sisters family lives. i thought about all the things that she hadnt seen or heard or done. i thought about the things that she had done without realizing that they were special. im still thinking about his words, and theyve changed the weeds in the garden. im spending more time with my family and friends and less time in mittee meetings. whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experience to savour, not endure. im trying to recognize these moment now and cherish them. im not saving anything。 we use our good china and crystal for every special. event such as losing a pound, getting the sink unstopped, the first camellia blossomamp。rsquo。rdquo。, I think that I really grow up. And I deeply believe kindred, goodfellowship and love will pe