【正文】 ，你的生活中就不會(huì)有工作“，是的。 is an powerful solution for physical and social it39。re an adult, religious people will leave you alone if you leave them ，大家將會(huì)孤立你，如果你孤立大家的話。告訴自己，那不是他們的錯(cuò)誤。如果你周圍還沒有這樣的人，去追尋?！蔽沂悄愕母改?，不是你的朋友“是一個(gè)比他們同齡人對(duì)待你的孩子的更好的原因，而不會(huì)更糟。 There are a million books out there about how to “boost” your here are recent ones I39。它們的目的是把你的職業(yè)看成是一個(gè)提供服務(wù)的自由職業(yè)者。s not)。一個(gè)很好的途徑是用LinkedIn和行業(yè)里的人保持聯(lián)系，并“追蹤”他們在做的事和擔(dān)心的事，如果你欣賞的人因?yàn)橛龅嚼щy發(fā)了微博，你就有一個(gè)很好的機(jī)會(huì)協(xié)助他們解決難題。今天你共事的人是你下一份工作的引薦人。你不能自己完成所有事——如果同事不喜歡你的態(tài)度，你就得花很多時(shí)間去做所有的事。找那些你尊重信任、且經(jīng)驗(yàn)豐富的人，從他們身上盡可能多學(xué)一些。找出那些有太多事要做或能明顯看出受挫的人。帶他們出去喝咖啡休息。 a Salary Audit 7.“核實(shí)”下你的工資The goal is to figure out if you’re being paid salaryparison sites to get a range of where you should warned — you might find you’re paid fairly(and might be overpaid!)even if you feel you deserve more!你的目標(biāo)是弄清楚是否獲得了與付出對(duì)等的工資。提高經(jīng)濟(jì)水平的最好方法是賺更多錢，但你也必須控制消費(fèi)。在你試圖找另一份工作前，請(qǐng)確保你把目前的工作做得無懈可擊。” The best course of action is to be ready for anything because the unexpected moves sometimes wind up being the best moves you ever make。讓你感興趣的東西會(huì)把你引領(lǐng)到不同的領(lǐng)域。溝通是至關(guān)重要的，尤其是與你要匯報(bào)的對(duì)象溝通。我不是說你把腳放在辦公桌上，開始對(duì)周圍的人呼來喚去。有時(shí)候一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)換位思考會(huì)讓你明白很多。什么事困擾著他？什么事讓他熬夜？他在擔(dān)心什么？現(xiàn)在花些時(shí)間，試著讓老板的生活更輕松。它飛行時(shí)，把樹枝銜在嘴里，累時(shí)，就把樹枝放在水里，站在上面休息。有人做了一個(gè)實(shí)驗(yàn)，把一只跳騷放在廣口瓶中，用透明的蓋子蓋上。因?yàn)樘}已經(jīng)調(diào)節(jié)了自己跳的高度，而且適應(yīng)這種情況，不再改變。，是一只杯子一位教授往一個(gè)空杯子里填滿石塊后，又拿出一盒小鵝卵石倒進(jìn)杯子，并輕輕晃動(dòng)杯子，好讓小鵝卵石滾進(jìn)石塊之間的空當(dāng)，然后教授拿出一盒沙子倒進(jìn)杯子，晃動(dòng)杯子，使沙子填滿所有的縫隙，最后又倒進(jìn)水，直到水滲透沙子溢出杯沿。，是一種態(tài)度多爾在試著解一道數(shù)學(xué)題之后，又試著解第2道數(shù)學(xué)題，經(jīng)過幾天的推算，他終于解開了2道數(shù)學(xué)題。可見，不局限自己，拋開內(nèi)心的恐懼，以高度樂觀的態(tài)度，集中精力去迎接各 種挑戰(zhàn)，那么，每個(gè)人都能取得非凡的業(yè)績。當(dāng)凡事不能只靠自己的力量，就要學(xué)會(huì)適時(shí)地依靠他人的力量來達(dá)到自己想要的結(jié)果，這中謙卑其實(shí)就是一種聰明。小老鼠又贊美烏云的偉大，烏云說：“風(fēng)一來你就明白誰最偉大了。個(gè)人看法：要想獲得財(cái)富和幸福，必須具備與之相應(yīng)的個(gè)性因素。t want to do but you have to,this is the things that you want to do but you can39。You only have one life...So don39。The only constant is change the world, anything, the thought of going to do, never to wait and ，任何事情，想到了就要去做，永遠(yuǎn)不要去等待和拖延。d rather be than ，我不愿作任何人?！獖W普拉ll make ，最終你將獲得進(jìn)展。When I thought I couldn39。蘭黛Deliberation is the work of many , of one ；行動(dòng)，卻是一個(gè)人的事。–威廉?詹姆斯Don39。ll never have you don39。不開口問，回答永遠(yuǎn)是No。– 杰克?倫敦Energy and persistence conquer all ?！旭R斯?愛迪生There are only two options regarding 39?！撂?萊利The steeper the mountain, the harder the climb, the better the view from the finishing ，攀登就愈困難，但在終點(diǎn)線的視野也愈好?！{爾遜?曼德拉The path of least resistance is the path of the ，正是失敗者走的道路?？墒敲坊▍s寂默無聲，在熱鬧的花海中，默默守候著，等待一聲最真心的關(guān)心，等待一束最真切的目光，等待，等待屬于自己的贊美??亂花欲醉迷人眼，百花爭奇斗艷，只為吸引別人的目光停留久一些，只為自己的美麗讓別人贊嘆不已。有什么比冬天的雪更冷的嗎？有什么能像冬天的雪一樣晶瑩剔透？有什么能像雪一樣，可以讓心不再有溫度？四個(gè)季節(jié)的等待，終是沒有一束屬于自己的目光。墻角數(shù)枝梅，凌寒獨(dú)自開。別受教條約束，別活在其他人對(duì)你的期望之中，別讓批評(píng)抹去了你內(nèi)心的聲音，你得找到你所愛的東西，包括你熱愛的事業(yè)和愛的伴侶。恐懼，扼殺夢想，恐懼，扼殺希望，恐懼，使人一蹶不振，恐懼使你蒼老，阻止你去做能做到的任何事，但是它也會(huì)使你麻木不仁。別讓你的情感控制你，我們是情感的動(dòng)物，但是你必須管理你的情感，你要是不能管理情感，你將會(huì)被吞噬，你想要全力以赴，毫不保留。對(duì)你的人生負(fù)完全的責(zé)任，接受現(xiàn)在的自己，并且相信自己能做的更好。I do the normal routine, eat dinner, clean the house, write—the usual then I lay down hoping to fall asleep quickly so my new day will hurry up and new day with a brand new as I lay there and wait for the world to turn half way around, I think about sometimes I smile, and sometimes that smile will turn into asnicker, and then often that snicker will turn into a burst of 、打掃屋子、寫作——做著日常事務(wù)。And then there are times I get that lump in my throat and that tight feeling in my chest, and sometimes that feeling overwhelms me and begins to turn into a tear, and often that tear multiplies itself and I can no longer fight the feeling and I lose the somehow through either the joy or the sadness I drift and find myself the dreams begin and keep me pany until my new day ，我的喉嚨像是被一塊東西哽住了，胸口發(fā)悶。When I awake it’s with such excitement because I tell myself this could be the day that every other day has led up to and the first day of the rest of my quickly don my smile because I do so want her to see me at my very I look out the window because, even though I know it’s dawn, I still have to confirm I’ve been given another chance to find ，我興奮不已，因?yàn)槲腋嬖V自己今天也許就是之前其他日子為之打下基礎(chǔ)的“那一天”，是我余生的第一天。somehow I still see it smiles at me and I say, “Thank you,” and I smile ……太陽，雖然還是云霧重重，但我還是看到它了。也許它會(huì)躲在雜貨店里，我拿起水果的時(shí)候，她就出現(xiàn)了，她會(huì)給我展示新鮮和變質(zhì)的不同。Thank you for the sun, which began my new you for granting me the faith when I arose this morning that I would find her in this new most of all, thank you for me not having to ever wait on another sunrise because whenever I want to see it, I will look at her and there it shall always be, in her eyes。她永遠(yuǎn)為我留著。t change your ，消滅那些我們經(jīng)常告訴自己的消極想法吧!如果你不改變想法，而是一味地沉浸在消極的念頭中，那么，我們的整個(gè)身心就會(huì)受到影響，因?yàn)椤柏瑝簟币矔?huì)成真。t think you39。比如你認(rèn)為自己不是個(gè)稱職的媽媽或不擅長運(yùn)動(dòng)。她花了八年的時(shí)間復(fù)原，用自己的經(jīng)歷寫了暢銷書，還上了奧普拉的節(jié)目。t care about you would be a very rare you39。re putting out。t have good relationships with the people you know, what39?；蛘吣阌X得沒人關(guān)心你，所以無需再經(jīng)營人際關(guān)系，但其實(shí)也許人們只有在感知到你的付出后，才會(huì)對(duì)你進(jìn)行回報(bào)。你需要放下對(duì)她的所有成見，告訴自己她也是個(gè)人，也有犯錯(cuò)的時(shí)候。s always going to be someone who is younger, prettier, smarter, or richer than you keep coveting what someone else has, then this may cause you to be resentful of them, which will open a whole other negative can of , what they don39。記住，你所擁有的也是他們所沒有的。If you think you39。皮斯托利斯，一個(gè)被截肢的運(yùn)動(dòng)員，戰(zhàn)勝了自己的阻礙，在其他健壯的對(duì)手中脫穎而出贏得了奧運(yùn)會(huì)的冠軍。You have to fight when you are already injured, bloody, and 、流血、疼痛時(shí)要反擊。You have to deliver results when making excuses is an ，你也要給出結(jié)果。You have to run faster even though you’re out of ，你也要盡力跑的快一些。You have to keep moving towards where you want to be no matter what’s in front of ，不管橫在你面前的是什么。讓你知道自己能堅(jiān)持多久的事情。The simple truth about how ordinary people acplish outrageous feats of success is that they do the hard things that smarter, wealthier, more qualified people don’t have the courage to ，他們做困難的事情，這些事是那些更聰明、更富有、更稱職的人沒勇氣做的。go where you want to g