【正文】 利雙收gain both fame and wealth 28茅塞頓開(kāi)be suddenly enlightened 29沒(méi)有規(guī)矩，不成方圓Nothing can be acplished without norms or festive occasions more than ever one thinks of one39。be a fencesitter。be an eyeopener 11國(guó)泰民安the country flourishes and people live in peace 12過(guò)猶不及going beyond the limit is as bad as falling short。go all out。do one39。excess is just as bad as deficiency。have a foot in either camp 22君子之交淡如水A hedge between keeps friendship ，陳詞濫調(diào)cut and dried。s dear ones far ，成事在天Man proposes。s own way of retreat and be determined to fight to the end 36搶得先機(jī)take the preemptive opportunities 37巧婦難為無(wú)米之炊One can39。be true to facts 54說(shuō)曹操，曹操到speak of the devil 55實(shí)話實(shí)說(shuō)speak the plain truth。s time58 58糖衣炮彈sugarcoated bullets59 59天有不測(cè)風(fēng)云Anything unexpected may bolt from the blue60 60團(tuán)結(jié)就是力量Unity is if one jumped into the Yellow River, one can not wash oneself cleanthere39。be blind to all but one39。thoroughly understand each other, without having exchanged a word of explanation 73先入為主First impressions are firmly who strikes first gains the advantage./The best defense is on a hot pan 76現(xiàn)身說(shuō)法warn people by taking oneself as an example 77息事寧人pour oil on troubled waters。Ascend further, were you to look makes waste./More haste, less of the fittest 92英雄所見(jiàn)略同Great minds think make friends than make in which people were unjustly, falsely or wrongly charged or sentenced。（《紅樓夢(mèng)》）So this young widow living in the lap of luxury was no better off than withered wood or cold ashes, taking no interest in the outside ，他的房子、地在這兒，他跑？跑得了和尚跑不了廟。fly into a rage 騎虎難下 hold a wolf by the ears 視而不見(jiàn) turn a blind eye to 大吵大鬧 raise the roof 公開(kāi)認(rèn)錯(cuò) stand in a white sheet 有花不完的錢 have enough money to burn 話中有話 with the tongue in the cheek 獲得全勝 sweep the board 機(jī)敏 keep one’s eyes on the ball堅(jiān)決反對(duì) put one’s foot down。不入虎穴，焉得虎子。從善如登，從惡如崩。多行不義，必自斃。涸澤而漁，焚林而獵 機(jī)不可失，時(shí)不再來(lái)。見(jiàn)善則遷，有過(guò)則改。麻雀雖小，五臟俱全 滿招損，謙受益。拳不離手，曲不離口 千里之堤，潰于蟻穴。人而無(wú)信，不知其可。人為財(cái)死，鳥(niǎo)為食亡。如初如磋，如琢如磨。山高月小，水落石出。盛名之下，其實(shí)難副。寧為玉碎，不為瓦全。． 順天者存，逆天者亡。螳螂捕蟬，黃雀在后。投我以桃，報(bào)之以李。先到為君，后到為臣。項(xiàng)莊舞劍，意在沛公。養(yǎng)兵千日，用兵一時(shí)。一言既出，駟馬難追。有志者,事竟成。知無(wú)不言，言無(wú)不盡 挾天子以令諸侯。tacit understanding先入為主First impressions are firmly the ball before the bound像熱鍋上的螞蟻like an ant on a hot pan現(xiàn)身說(shuō)法warn people by taking oneself as an example息事寧人pour oil on troubled waters喜憂參半mingled hope and fear循序漸進(jìn)step by step一路平安，一路順風(fēng)speed somebody on their way。Would eye embrace a thousand miles? Go up, one flight.”欲速則不達(dá)Haste does not bring of the fittest英雄所見(jiàn)略同Great minds think make friends than make “cases in which people were unjustly, falsely or wrongly charged or sentenced。s nature at birth is puts heart into a strategy世上無(wú)難事，只要肯攀登“Where there is a will, there is a way.”世外桃源a fictitious land of peace away from the turmoil of the world。be true to facts說(shuō)曹操,曹操到Talk of the devil and he the plain truth。s capacities and bide one39。What in past, is past.“望子成龍hold high hopes for one39。to fall short of the best, but be better than the worst笨鳥(niǎo)先飛A slow sparrow should make an early night不以物喜，不以己悲not pleased by external gains, not saddened by personnal losses不遺余力spare no effort。ring out the old year and ring in the new大事化小，小事化了try first to make their mistake sound less serious and then to reduce it to nothing at all大開(kāi)眼界open one39。be an eyeopener國(guó)泰民安The country flourishes and people live in peace過(guò)猶不及going too far is as bad as not going far enough。t be fill the home腳踏實(shí)地be downtoearth腳踩兩只船sit on the fence君子之交淡如水the friendship between gentlemen is as pure as crystal。s dear ones far is on the festival occasions when one misses his dear ，成事在天”The planning lies with man, the oute with Heaven./ Man proposes, God disposes.弄巧成拙be too smart by half。t make a fist./ One can39。Know the enemy and know yourself and you can fight a hundred battles with no danger of you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.。不知彼而知己,一勝一負(fù)。throw a sprat to catch a whale破釜沉舟cut off all means of retreat。禮尚往來(lái)Courtesy calls for ，不怕沒(méi)柴燒”Where there is life, there is hope.“馬到成功achieve immediate victory。too much is as bad as too little功夫不負(fù)有心人Everything es to him who on shore, one prays no more好事不出門，惡事傳千里Good news never goes beyond the gate, while bad news spread far and brings wealth活到老，學(xué)到老One is never too old to bygones be bygones金無(wú)足赤,人無(wú)完人Gold can39。broaden one39。do one39。military strategy唯利是圖draw water to one39。s nothing one can do to clear one39。tell it as it is實(shí)踐是檢驗(yàn)真理的唯一標(biāo)準(zhǔn)Practice is the sole criterion for testing ，有仙則名”No matter how high the mountain is, its name will spread far and wide if there is a fairy。t be repaid by the river rises, the boat floats and tide wait for no a butterfly on the wheel實(shí)事求是seek truth from facts。 heel眾矢之的target of public criticism知己知彼,百戰(zhàn)不殆Know the enemy and know yourself, and you can fight a hundred battles with no danger of an armchair strategist紙包不住火Truth will e to light sooner or the devil and the deep blue sea。people foremost因材施教teach students according to their aptitude欲窮千里目，更上一層樓“to ascend another storey to see a thousand miles further。s no smoke without the law for the benefit of relatives or friends新官上任三把火a new broom sweeps clean虛心使人進(jìn)步,驕傲使人落后Modesty helps one go forward, whereas conceit makes one lag strength for a takeoff心想事成May all your wish e true心照不宣have a tacit understanding。知彼知己，百戰(zhàn)不殆。有則改之，無(wú)則加勉。養(yǎng)軍千日，用軍一時(shí)。言必信，行必果。鞠躬盡瘁，死而后已。為山九仞，功虧一簣。天網(wǎng)恢恢，疏而不漏。送君千里，終須一別。守口如瓶，防意如城。精誠(chéng)所至，金石為開(kāi)。生于憂患，死于安樂(lè)。三思而行，再思可矣。人無(wú)遠(yuǎn)慮，必有近憂。人生一世，草木一春。棋逢對(duì)手，將遇良才 前車覆，后車戒。皮之不存，毛將焉附。精誠(chéng)所至，金石為開(kāi)近朱者赤，近墨者黑。己所不欲，勿施于人。福無(wú)雙至，禍不單行 風(fēng)聲鶴唳，草木皆兵 輔車相依，唇亡齒寒。得寵思辱，居安思危 東隅已逝，桑榆非晚。城門失火，殃及池魚(yú) 差之毫厘，謬以千里。a family skeleton 覺(jué)得可疑 smell a r