【正文】 skirt。如果事情出錯了，你進入了死胡同，這正是生活在告訴你是時候改變了。
　　And what Iamp。t pay attention to lifeamp。llget a scream. Whatever you resist persists. But, if you ask the right question。如果你忽視了這個低聲的告誡，過不了多久你就會得到一個驚聲尖叫，無論你怎樣反抗。s written this wonderful book called A New Earth thatamp。t react against a bad situation。it means acting with responsibility.
　　我的朋友Eckhart Tolle。事情會變的越來越好的。m trying to give South African girls a shot at a future like yours。我想讓每一個女孩感覺到自己的價值受到重視。然而，去年的秋天我卻遇到了一個我從未預料的危機。for abouthalf an hour. And then I said, letamp。39。一個半小時，這就是你全部所能得到的。我確定女孩們得到了安慰和支持。d built that school from theoutside in, when what really mattered was the inside , itamp。s inside. What matters most is the sense ofintegrity, of quality and beauty. I got that lesson. And what I know is that the girls cameaway with something, too. They have emerged from this more resilient and knowing that theirvoices have power.
　　整個過程中我都在問自己：”。我從外向內建造了那所學校，然而正真對我有意義的是從內向外的去建造它。她們從中恢復了過來并意識到她們的聲音是有影響力的。接下來是我最后的經(jīng)驗。s the simplest of Brooks wrote a poem for her children. Itamp。Speech to the Young : Speech tothe ProgressToward.amp。Live not for battles won. / Live not for theendofthesong. / Live in the along.amp。s saying, like Eckhart Tolle, that you have to live for thepresent. You have to be in the moment. Whatever has happened to you in your past has nopower over this present moment, because life is now.
　　追求幸福并不是一個小話題。
　　But I think sheamp。t live for yourself alone. This is what Iknow for sure: In order to be truly happy, you must live along with and you have to stand forsomething larger than yourself. Because life is a reciprocal exchange. To move forward youhave to give back. And to me, that is the greatest lesson of life. To be happy, you have to givesomething back.
　　我想她還說過，去參與一些事。為了前進，你必須后退。39。39。39。這個經(jīng)驗是Jane and Leland傳承給你們的。在他們兒子死后不到一年內，他們已經(jīng)這所偉大的大學籌集了建設經(jīng)費，并發(fā)誓要為別人的孩子做一些他們自己的孩子不能得到事。39。39。這樣一來，你就變成了婦女聯(lián)誼會或是互助會中最偉大的一個員。39。這種智慧漸漸的被科學和社會學研究所證實。
　　But when you do good, I hope you strive for more than just the good feeling that serviceprovides, because I know this for sure, that doing good actually makes you better. So, whateverfield you choose, if you operate from the paradigm of service, I know your life will have morevalue and you will be happy.
　　但是當你做好事時，我希望你不僅僅是為了獲得的快樂，因為我深知做好事可以讓你變得更棒。t describe to you or measure when I stopped just being on TV andlooking at TV as a job and decided to use television, to use it and not have it use me, to use itas a platform to serve my viewers. That alone changed the trajectory of my success.
　　我也很高興做我的脫口秀節(jié)目，那種快樂是一種更深層次的成就感，我很難去表達和衡量。that whether youamp。re an anatomist, you look at your gift as knowledge and service to youamp。t spent all this time at Stanford just to go out and get a job.
　　我知道無論你是否是一名演員，你都應該把你的才智貢獻給能夠鼓舞他人的事業(yè)。
　　Youamp。s no better way to make your mark on the worldand to share that abundance with others. My constant prayer for myself is to be used inservice for the greater good.
　　你們在很多方面都得到了提高。Noteverybody can be famous.amp。t know, but everybody today seems to want to be famous.
　　就讓我引用馬丁路德金的話來作為結束語吧。我不知道，但似乎今天所有人都想出名。try to peequietly. It doesnamp。Ohmigod, itamp。
　　但是成名也是一種代價。他們會對你說：”。39。
　　So, Dr. King said, amp。 Those of you who are history scholars may know the restof that passage. He said, amp。t have to have a college degree to serve. You donamp。t have to know about Plato or Aristotle toserve. You donamp。s theory of relativity to serve. You donamp。
　　所以，正如馬丁路德金所說，”。 你們當中學歷史的人可能會知道他接下來的話，”。但每個人都可以變的偉大，因為偉大是通過為他人服務而界定的。t have to knowthe second theory of thermodynamics in physics to serve. You only need a heart full of graceand a soul generated by love.amp。t have to know Einsteinamp。t have tomake your subject and verb agree to serve. You donamp。You donamp。Not everybody can be famous. But everybody can be great, becausegreatness is determined by service.amp。39?！薄Ｄ銜M量尿的輕一些。s you. You peed.amp。t matter, they e out and say, amp。39。不是所有人都會出名。 And I donamp。我永恒的祈禱就是讓自己能夠為他人提供更好的服務
　　So, let me end with one of my favorite quotes from Martin Luther King. Dr. King said, amp。ve been enriched in countless ways. Thereamp。無論你是否被召喚，你們中的很多人在經(jīng)濟，法律，人權，科學，醫(yī)藥方面都獲得了諸如博士一類的學位，如果你們決定把你們的技能和智慧奉獻給服務他人們，選擇把服務他人作為榜樣，你們的工作就會變成一種天賦。ve been called, as so many of you here today getting doctorates and otherdegrees, to the professions of business, law, engineering, humanities, science, medicine, if youchoose to offer your skills and talent in service, when you choose the paradigm of service,looking at life through that paradigm, it turns everything you do from a job into a gift. And Iknow you havenamp。re an actor, you offer your talent in the way that mostinspires art. If youamp。這改變了我成功的軌跡。
　　I was always happy doing my talk show, but that happiness reached a depth of fulfillment, ofjoy, that I really canamp。這事實上是在幫助者的高度，一種從幫助別人而獲得的精神大爆發(fā)。39。39。如果你感到痛苦，幫助他人減輕痛苦。39。39。斯坦福夫婦的獨子在15歲時得了傷寒離開了他們。39。39。39。想要獲得快樂你必須付出。我可以非?？隙ǖ氖菫榱俗非笳嬲目鞓?，你必須為了一些更有意義的事而生活。s also saying, be a part of something. Donamp。Gwendolyn Brooks為她的孩子寫了一首詩，詩名是Speech to the Young : Speech to the ，不要為了戰(zhàn)勝而生活，不要為了歌曲的結尾而生活，要享受生活。 Sheamp。 And she says at the end, amp。s called amp。
　　Not a small topic this is, finding happiness. But in some ways I think itamp。the one about finding happiness。我學到了那個教訓。雖然這個經(jīng)歷十分困難，但是我學到了很多。s a lesson that applies to all ofour lives as a whole. What matters most is whatamp。
　　And the whole time I kept asking that question: What is this here to teach me? And, as difficultas that experience has been, I got a lot of lessons. I understand now the mistakes I made,because I had been paying attention to all of the wrong things. Iamp。所以我聯(lián)系了一位兒科創(chuàng)傷專家。首先，我哭了，啜泣了大約半個小時。s get to it。
　　That was, as you can imagine, devastating news. First, I cried。我知道每一個細節(jié)。我希望給南非的女孩們一個像你們一樣的未來。
　　Many of you know that, as President Hennessy said, I started this school in Africa. And Ifounded the school, where Iamp。這本書就是關于讓你的意識激勵你去做事。39。s all aboutletting the awareness of who you are stimulate everything that you do, he puts it like this:He says, donamp。
　　My friend Eckhart Tolle, whoamp。it puts you in the place and space to get thelesson you need.
　　我注意到當你沒有仔細對待生活的細節(jié)時，困難就會